The best way to reach me is through my blog, here on Alt.
I am what is called a switch, someone who can act as either a Dom or a sub. I've been here a while and have gained information, but no practical r/t experiance. I'm hoping to change that, though friendships and lasting relationships are preferable to one night stands. Not that I object to using or being used for the night.
Though I like the idea of letting the moment go where it may, I prefer to move slowly as far as my involvement in the over all fetish experience. Presently, I have no objections to bondage and spanking (hand or paddle) or sight/hearing deprivation, I've no interest in progressing further without having those experiences first (both giving and receiving).
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking to learn the lifestyle. I would like a mentor, a teacher, offering hands on experiance (litterally). A Domme would be perferable, though I could most certainly learn from a sub as well. I'm a sensualist at heart, so pain can't be the only thing going on.
I'm straight, and not even curious in men. I'm not into urin or scat, so don't even ask. I prefer to give oral sex than to receive, but then maybe I just haven't found a woman particularly good at it. I've always wanted to try giving anal sex and rim jobs. I like sex wherever and whenever the mood arises. I've even thought about doing it out doors. My favorite fantasy is to be dominated by more than woman, or to work with woman (or two) to dominate another woman.
I am a sensualist at heart. Sex should be an experiance of all the senses. Still, I can see the appeal of removing sight and sound to add a bit of mystery and excitement. Foreplay is extreamly important, and should be implemented whenever possible. Still, a quickie can be fun in and of itself.
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