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EVEN MORE BLONDE QUESTIONS ANSWERED   8/20/2017

Yeah and what do blondes put behind their ears to attract men? Their ankles


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Dear Alcohol   6/9/2017

I don't have a drinking problem. I drink, I get drunk, I fall over and make a fool of myself. Where's the problem?


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About Laying Off...   9/13/2016

Another good one, thanks Jo.


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Watch what you ask for   8/25/2016

lol, maybe he should have asked for a Porsche. Just lucky he didn't get some well endowed gay bear intent on having his wicked way with him.


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The Complment...   8/23/2016

What a mean husband. I would try to reassure her by saying "You don't look old."


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How old guys pick up women   7/27/2016

Must get myself on of those.


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Sad Dick...   7/27/2016

And when he has sex, he throws up.


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Limits and safe words, do we realy need them? Yes, we most certainly do.   7/12/2016

I met a sub who didn't want to set up a safeword, so I just gave her one anyway.


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Question   4/9/2009

What galls me is the "It's for your sake" line. Please! I am adult enough to know what I want and to make my own decisions. And you cannot tell me that you are sacrificing yourself in leaving just bec


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Twice upon a time...   4/9/2009

Good practical positive advice. I don't believ there is a perfect sub. I think the perfection is in our own perception, so if we think the next one will not measure up, of course she wont. And if we t


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Not never, just not now.   4/9/2009

I think your feelings and reaction are perfectly natural. The head is happy that one you still care for is building a new life but of course the heart aches that it's with someone else. It may be your


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Letting go when it was never meant to be   4/9/2009

I live on the edge of nowhere, so most of the ladies I meet on alt I never see r/t. I have had one intense and a couple of casual online relationships with submissives who I have never met. They broke


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Male subs need to be careful about their safety too   3/30/2009

Yes, relationships take time to build. And everyone seems to be in such a hurry. Anxious for a quick thrill. Share too much info and you become vulnerable. Withhold too much and you become the subject


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Being careful   3/30/2009

This is the extreme example of what can go wrong. Fortunately it's rare, but once is too often.


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the importance of Safety   3/30/2009

You make a very good point that it's not just at the first meeting that people need to consider safety. We all take some sort of risk in engaging in BDSM play, even dominant males, and the name of the


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Acid Tests for True Dominants   3/30/2009

The acid tests #1 to #16 I agree with. They are sensible and concise. The steps 1 to 5 I partially agree with. I am committed to safety for both subs and doms, online and r/t and I applaud your effort


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Growing number of "Mistress" scams   3/30/2009

I agree people need to be aware of scammers, and we need to do what we can to get them off alt. As far as time wasters go, what some people regard as wasting time may be just what some others enjoy. W


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An extreme partner - extremely vanilla, anyway   3/18/2009

I think the truly vanilla is a rare person. Try lots of different options. You just might hit on something you have in common. On the other hand, never expect to "convert" someone. They may be just sh


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