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The right Mistress - 7/4/2017

Yeah you can do it long distance but it's not the same. If you just want a casual, occasional relationship then maybe it's not too bad, but I sure missed a warm body in bed with me and someone

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Teeth Scraping - 6/23/2017

Practice. Learn to open wider or find a thinner cock. Various open mouth gags can help, spider or ring or dental types such as the whitehead, but they will take some getting used to if you are using t

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How to avoid fakes? - 6/8/2017

You can learn a fair bit about someone by reading their blog, but only a small minority blog and many of them aren't seeking anyone. Otherwise there are two different approaches. If they live near

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Seeking Enlightenment - 5/28/2017

If it feels good there will always be someone trying to ban it. looking4fat is onto something about the forbidden being more fun. I've read an opinion that those Victorian English must have just a

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Am I responsible - 8/24/2016

At our age, anyone under about 35 looks , but if you really think she was, then you should report it.

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Dumb ASS - 8/21/2016

There's dumb and then there's dumber. I read of a guy who sat in an airport in China for 10 days waiting for his online lover to show up. But just because one party is stupid, doesn't mean

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how do I find out if I have a bisexual side - 7/26/2016

Sounds to me like a response to abuse. Many victims do experience conflicting feelings. Whether these feelings, in your case, are a response to the abuse, or a genuine desire to explore your sexualit

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finding local people - 7/12/2016

Whoa, seems to me people have reacted a bit harshly here. Way I read it you are asking how to contact people, even if you didn't technically write a question. Still, the advice to go to groups or

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Getting started in the lifestylr - 7/11/2016

I found the blogs on alt to be a good starting point. It's free and you can just look and read at first, comment when you feel like it. It's pretty easy for a shy guy, and I met a partner that

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Floggers - 4/10/2009

Thanks for all the responses. Some good advice and much to think on and follow up.

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THE CODES ARE BROKEN - 4/2/2009

I wrote a blog post about my sheep mating, with each other. No people involved. It was denied for "inappropriate subject". How lame is that?

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Ideas for rituals and play - 3/30/2009

I like to have a sub dress in an outfit of my choosing. This is a lot more erotic to me than nakedness. Just looking after her play wardrobe can be a ritual chore in itself. And sometimes I like her t

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Addiction ? Preferences & Expectations - 3/29/2009

To me aftercare or what I prefer to call afterplay (the counterpoint to foreplay) is part of the whole experince. It is not something I "provide" to a sub. It is something I like to share. I myself am

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Asking Someone To Be 'Firmer' - 3/27/2009

You cannot expect him to give "more" when you say "less". Try renting a movie or buying a magazine with what you want in it and see how he reacts. At some stage you have to screw up your courage and t

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Medical fetish - 3/27/2009

I think doctors are not just tired of medical stuff at the end of the day. I think they need to avoid sexualising it, even if they were that way inclined. They need to remain detached. They simply can

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Legally male - 3/18/2009

If you are asking can she legally go topless, then I don't know the law in your area. Probably she could. Should she do it? Probably not. But, hey, there are plenty of males who shouldn't go topless e

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Tortured? Deserved? Punishment? Traumatized? - 3/16/2009

I saw this in your blog Kitty, and on second reading I am still just as apalled. His treatment of you was not only abusive, it was dangerous.

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imitation semen - 3/16/2009

I hope you're not going to use it for fake orgasms!

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Profile Images.... - 3/16/2009

I just wish alt would make these rules clearer. It's mostly a matter of finding out by trial and error. I can only presume different people at alt have different standards.

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know a good way to get a male partner to wear a condom, - 3/9/2009

In NZ applying a condom is part of sex education for girls. The best way to get a guy to wear one is to put it on. By mouth is good, by hand is fine, just make it part of the fun.

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Try this standard members - 3/7/2009

Excellent. We could do with more tricks like this for us freeloaders. Even just advice about how the site is supposed to work for us. Every time I try to find out something from alt their respo

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