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Gay/Bi Men 4/12/2024
At what point to you get rude with the pushy gay men? i usually
just give a simple No Thanks.. But some just can't take
NO... I'm sure the women deal with this all the time.
Thanks
2 Comments,
60 Views,
18 Votes
,2.72 Score
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Its a bit hard 9/23/2023
But Its hard for me to tell someone of the same sex I am not
interested because regardless I am a caring person so I
want to make sure I do not offend anyone. What's the
best advice for this?
2 Comments,
87 Views,
67 Votes
,0.30 Score
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Let's just say what we are thinking 11/20/2022
I know guilty of this as well times. But there
is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone
who is stringing me along.
3 Comments,
110 Views,
74 Votes
,0.55 Score
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Just points to reply 11/20/2022
Just points to reply
3 Comments,
107 Views,
86 Votes
,0.80 Score
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Saying no in a nice way 11/20/2022
how do you usually say no to someone that you are not interested
in?
5 Comments,
134 Views,
92 Votes
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Let's just say what we are thinking 7/5/2022
I know guilty of this as well times. But there
is nothing more frustrating than wasting my time on someone
who is stringing me along.
2 Comments,
112 Views,
93 Votes
,0.55 Score
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To be, or not to be... 1/26/2022
I got a question. Tis it nobler or more appropriate to tell
someone their is no interest, perhaps with explanation
or to end in perpetual silence?
1 Comments,
39 Views,
28 Votes
,0.57 Score
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Anyone have any secrets they want to share? 1/26/2022
Anything taboo stories to get the convo going?
1 Comments,
52 Views,
47 Votes
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Not Interested 6/11/2020
What do you think is the best way to tell someone you're
not interested? Especially if it's someone that you
probably will see somewhere and don't want an awkward
situation?
15 Comments,
127 Views,
17 Votes
,4.40 Score
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Already had a problem 10/30/2019
I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've
been extremely polite to each and every response I've
recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first
email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM
ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've
had problems on another site in the past. He immediately
emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...
11 Comments,
371 Views,
34 Votes
,6.92 Score
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Polite rejection 8/5/2019
Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being
rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver
it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type,
I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective
to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering
if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound
like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...
4 Comments,
58 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you 11/10/2018
I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me
potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations,
a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars,
lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend,
shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.
His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive,
they caught my attention and ...
11 Comments,
452 Views,
29 Votes
,6.15 Score
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS 6/12/2018
EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking
YOU out.! <br><br>
Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br>
<br><br>
As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle.
let me explain what I mean .. <br><br>
LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...
1 Comments,
26 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Saying no is better than bullshitting 1/30/2017
I have been approached by many women who have initially
provided me with bullshit photos so what do you say to them?
No thanks
2 Comments,
109 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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seems easy but... 11/1/2016
Wish I had the chance to say no to some of the ladies here,
but more often is men looking for another man that do not
take NO very easily. Why don't some read profiles?
2 Comments,
38 Views,
12 Votes
,4.39 Score
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Nothing wrong 10/15/2016
To me there is nothing wrong with saying no thanks. I have
been in this lifestyle for many years 30 and counting. I
have seen, heard and done a lot and trust me not everything
is for everyone. Just find someone who fits you wants and
desires and then push the envelope a little but don't
go out of the comfort zone. This lifestyle only works well
with trust, openness, honesty and desire.
3 Comments,
41 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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I wish people would say no thanks!!! 10/18/2015
People don't just ignore e-mails!!!! Write back and
so no thanks!!! Way to many e-mails go unanswered!!!! It
is the polite thing to do!!!!
8 Comments,
115 Views,
13 Votes
,4.99 Score
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be open and up front 6/21/2015
be open and up front and talk about what you both want and
be willing to try new things
1 Comments,
28 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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random hits to your profile 1/16/2012
Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome
visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious
as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.
5 Comments,
176 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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I try to be respectful 1/6/2012
Even when saying, no thank you, since respect is important.
One can not just say 'fuck off' .. well wait, one
can but it's entirely rude. Instead i like to point
out why i consider the whole effort a complete wash. It's
actually a fairly good way of pointing things out if mistakes
have been made. Things that people should consider....
i think it helps them in their searches.
Sometimes ...
2 Comments,
239 Views,
19 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Dont Take it personal.... 9/14/2011
Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry"
just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99%
of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they
are physically attractive.
The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want
and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT
SETTLE for anything less.
When I am meeting someone whom I ...
2 Comments,
143 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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there was a time 1/4/2011
There was a time I use to answer a polite "no thanks"
to all the mails I received (here or elswhere) beeing a woman
and a Dominant one generate a lot of asking mails.
Use to think I needed a special subcretary to answer all
of them but never found the one *S*
<br>
This took me a enormous amount of time, maybe because I was
more than polite and gave a little answer to every mail ...
7 Comments,
393 Views,
24 Votes
,3.93 Score
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no thanks 5/10/2010
I think it's just being rude not to reply to someone
that's taken the time to respond to your profile. ON the other hand there is too many random hits and fake, (maybe
people paid by this site) emails that it starts to piss you
off. If it's a genuine email I reply each time. There are
many ways to say no thanks but the best is thanks for your
interest but no thankyou.
4 Comments,
72 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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why? 4/19/2010
If i told somebody no thanks already and keep asking me for
sex? what can i do? that peson dont leave me alone. and im
sick of it.i dont like to use violence or be rude with people
but at this point i feel like if im gonna exploid.
2 Comments,
93 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Master's Offer 11/9/2009
I consider myself submissive. I received an offer from
a potential master about a week ago.
Here is my problem, the way he approached the subject made
me want to defy. I have never had that happen to me on a first
meeting. He chose to tell me that he is very prominate in
this community and that his wife knows nothing of his desires.
Those two facts right there made my stomach turn. It ...
7 Comments,
383 Views,
21 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Why people donth bother to reply 8/5/2009
I have often been thinking why people are so lazy when it
comes to be polite on the net.
Very often when i send someone an email, i dont even get a
reply.
How hard is it to simply say "no thanks, i am not interested"
I know that some get a lots of emails. And of course the women
in here maybe get tons of mails, but thats not an excuse to
not reply, i mean if they get too many mails than ...
6 Comments,
251 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Cock Shots 3/12/2009
i generally turn down requests
for contact from Men who send me nude pictures, especially
cock shots. But i got to thinking, why would a Man send one
of an unattrative cock. Don't get me wrong; most cocks
are more than average in size, but that alone doesn't
make them attractive. So i thought i'd hand out my POV
on the matter.
1) If Your cock is a ...
15 Comments,
534 Views,
39 Votes
,5.76 Score
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Kinda hard to say NO 11/29/2008
Kinda ODD but I feel we all have had this moment in our "dateing"
lives.......hence ya like certain peeps but not sexually....But
they want you...Odd cause when you crave this you get it
but not from the ones you want....lol...Ironic cums to
mind...lol...So do you engage in sex just cause the other
wants too, or you say no and become the bad guy? I rather say
NO and be ohnest.....Sum say ...
1 Comments,
145 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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Thank You, I am not interested. 10/5/2008
When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest
me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments.
Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality,
sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and
more?
Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back
for a moment and think that this person has ...
3 Comments,
119 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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winks and flirting 8/29/2008
Having someone view your profile might suggest they liked
you picture or your one-line come on but it doesn't
necessarily mean they're interested. After reading
about you, there might not be a match. Still it shows up on
your "interested" list.
But winks should be a better indicator right? I say *should*
because I am the proud recipient of a "no thanks"
quick reply indicating she ...
2 Comments,
142 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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