barryj43 80 M
24 Articles
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Relationship building   2/29/2024

Relationship are a 24 / 7 job. I sometime wonder if it's worth the effort or if settling for the occasionally hoop up is the way to go....


8 Comments, 190 Views, 116 Votes ,0.77 Score
satyrp 76 M
22 Articles
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Finding True Self By Being Humbled   12/27/2023

We all agree, it seems, that D/s relationships are tricky affairs which most folks aren't very adept at. The control freak is too often abusive rather than an instructive dominant and the bratty sub is an attention rather than a yielding submissive. Why is this so and what to do? <br><br> Humiliation is not a fetish but a pathway to discovering reality-based selfhood of the ...


8 Comments, 187 Views, 82 Votes ,1.89 Score
WhiteDom4BlacFem 49 M
24 Articles
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Intimacy of a Dom and his slave   12/27/2023

Forever and ever I have required the heat and passion of a slave. <br><br> I need her heart more than I want her body or servitude. <br><br> The act of deep kissing is my form of TPE as she gives herself completely and the connection is perfect with no pretense or costume. To lie upon her breasts and listen to her breathe. To press my ear into her as to hear her heart ...


6 Comments, 125 Views, 72 Votes ,2.80 Score
RinBoots 71 F
27 Articles
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Relationship   8/8/2023

Relationship can only happen where there is free interaction between people.


1 Comments, 46 Views, 30 Votes ,1.77 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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My sex session with a stranger woman.   8/2/2023

It was a evening. I went to park. Cool breeze was breezing and gave more oxygen and mood changed. Mood for lovely evening with good food came., I needed a woman for me to have dinner. I searched and searched on corners of the park. But no one attracted my attention. Then I went to a nearby bar with food. I sat in a corner. A lady came and asked me what I want. She tole me She is also hungry and ...


5 Comments, 60 Views, 26 Votes ,3.56 Score
Come2playwithyoy 36 F
2 Articles
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How do you know how to trust on alt   7/29/2023

Their are so many fake people on here how do you know who to trust. Looking for help.


3 Comments, 19 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
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Would you be in to a Trophy Stepford or made in to one in to Submission?   6/8/2023

I know I am a Natural Stepford with the push up bra's and tight corset's but some what to go to the extreme. Being a kept Women for a man she cater to him out of her submission. She must submit to him fully in contract. Willing to be forced in to refinement and pleasure and marriage in contract. To cater and be under him as he guides and protects you must wear what he requires heels are ...


22 Comments, 220 Views, 41 Votes ,7.39 Score
fares70 46 M
10 Articles
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Good three in the morning, evening and late night   4/7/2023

Good in the morning, evening and late night


4 Comments, 91 Views, 64 Votes ,1.69 Score
DaddyOG3 43 M
8 Articles
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Covid   4/7/2023

Why are there so many covid posts here?


1 Comments, 67 Views, 55 Votes ,1.12 Score
fussleckskl1000 65 M
1 Article
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Central Astronauts Training Education Masochist feetslave   4/7/2023

article is in preperation


1 Comments, 84 Views, 75 Votes ,1.55 Score
fares70 46 M
10 Articles
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The most dangerous enemies of humans   4/5/2023

Hello everyone who read my blog and I wish the good and happiness to the people of the world and I hope that it is fine and good health and the recovery of all disease. We benefit from it or a useful experiment that benefits conclusions from the Coronavirus or (COVID-19) is present in areas that witness a widespread and continuous spread, for example cold areas like Europe and America, the ...


3 Comments, 83 Views, 60 Votes ,0.69 Score
fares70 46 M
10 Articles
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Greetings to doctors and nurses in the world who are victims of humanity   4/5/2023

The diary of the Corona Virus. I wish everyone a recovery, and that everything is okay with everyone and be in health, happiness, and salutation to the doctors and nurses in the world who are victims for humanity and death for humanity. From the due appeal, I understand many thanks, gratitude and gratitude. The most loyal loyal soldiers of the homeland are lost because they are in battle with an ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 71 Votes ,1.47 Score
fares70 46 M
10 Articles
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O Lord, the joy and smile prevail over all the peoples of the world   4/5/2023

Welcome to the next chapter of my blog The Most Dangerous Enemies of People We Benefit From Or There is a useful experience that informs conclusions about the most dangerous human disease Hovoved Corona virus emerging What you should know about the emerging corona virus disease as a benefit The corona virus emerging affects people all over the world, including Many as the virus continues to ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 61 Votes ,0.84 Score
fares70 46 M
10 Articles
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Corona's time   4/5/2023

Hello, I hope that everyone will be fine, healthy and happy. We previously talked about the most dangerous disease, which is the Corona virus or Covid-19. There are some conclusions, such as this disease that will leave an impact with humanity. Some people began live with this disease as if the disease did not exist, and it may be the most dangerous stage or vice versa. A puzzling question. It ...


2 Comments, 123 Views, 89 Votes ,1.43 Score
fares70 46 M
10 Articles
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Happy year is ready for the new year   2/14/2023

be ready in the year. I hope that you will get everything you need and forward awakening your deep, dark, suppressed and enjoyable fantasies in the year and happy birthday all.


6 Comments, 63 Views, 46 Votes ,1.01 Score
aldompdx 62 M
5 Articles
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How Control and Surrender are Different   9/11/2022

External control is when my partner delegates to me, the privilege of exercising authority on her behalf. That includes authority over her, and making decisions on her behalf, to the extent and degree permitted both in advance and in the moment.



Internal control is of myself, my thoughts, my actions and reactions, the balance and emotion of my feelings. It is the observation and ...


3 Comments, 138 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
gamarriedcouple 71 C
73 Articles
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Is it worth it?   9/11/2022

Wearing this chastity cage between my legs. Waking up early in the morning as I get a painful woody telling me I need to go to the bathroom. Living my life now as a chaste husband. There are times I ask myself is this all worth it.

Then I look at my wife. My beautiful and gorgeous wife. Then, like last night, I see her in bed with someone other than me. I watch another man pound his cock ...


6 Comments, 84 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
intrinsic_heed 54 M
4 Articles
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Tribal Education; TPE (Total Power Exchange) 24/7   9/11/2022

[post 174] 24/7 TPE Dynamics <br><br> Friday, October 30, 20 Tribe Education Gridlox TPE Total Power Exchange <br><br> TPE or Total Power Exchange is an arrangement between two or more individuals, in which an agreement is made of bonding, trust, complete understanding of all parties expectations, desires, boundaries, needs and limitations. Based on these ...


3 Comments, 31 Views, 19 Votes ,2.46 Score
fares70 46 M
10 Articles
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God, joy and smile prevail over all the people of the world   11/28/2021

Good evening to friends. I hope for everyone to be well and well. Complement a topic. I love adding some things. We talked about the most serious disease that afflicted mankind and the paralysis of the economic movement in the world days. Life comes back from another. But we have to be careful. I talked about some sixty products that the virus with weather A lemon sunlight Most herbs. Drinks, ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 55 Votes ,0.99 Score
Daddyknowsbest8 55 M
0 Articles
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How to contact you   5/1/2021

Hello, <br><br> Thanks for reading. If you are of points, how are you contacting people here? I am using malepuppylips on k.i.k. <br><br> I enjoy breast , rope , anal, spanking, role , taboo, /, Mother/, Doctor/patient, etc., collar and leash, caging, pet , nipple stretching, anal stretching, anal plugs, bondage, hot wax, etc... <br><br> ...


1 Comments, 63 Views, 37 Votes ,1.04 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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Bus Journey.   7/19/2020

Travelling is a hobby for many and compulsion for most of us. We have to travel long distances and when in urgency without reserved tickets in train BUS JOURNEY becomes best option. On such an occasion I had to travel and I boarded the bus. There were two seats on remote back corner. Relunctantly i sat there . After an hour on next stop of bus a young lady of 30 around entered in bus and she had ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 28 Votes ,2.83 Score
MissLoveParty1 42 F
17 Articles
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New Friends and Fun!   6/11/2020

I joined this website for fun yet didn't know what to expect. My goal was to find people for real-life play. I am lucky to have been contacted by people who are sincere in their desires.

Regarding the world outside of the website, I am amazed at how quickly time spent playing in this lifestyle turns into friendships. I feel like I have so much in common with people whom I've met. I ...


2 Comments, 248 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
MissLoveParty1 42 F
17 Articles
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Long Distance Relationship   6/11/2020

Has anyone travelled to meet someone from this website? How far? Was it worth your effort? How far would you be willing to travel?


9 Comments, 117 Views, 18 Votes ,5.72 Score
MissLoveParty1 42 F
17 Articles
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Long Distance Relationship   6/11/2020

I have a long distance relationship. He is in a place where he can receive photos but no nudity. I have great sexy clothes and costumes. I need suggestions for photos. What would create a really hot photo? What are your favorite poses and scenery? What visual images turn you on?


4 Comments, 69 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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Can anybody answer?.   3/15/2020

Two ladies were sleeping on same bed. They were hugging each other and kissing each other at times while gossipping. Their intentions were now known. they just talked and kissed and hugged tight. Why they were doing so?.


2 Comments, 36 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
Daddyknowsbest8 55 M
0 Articles
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How to contact you   1/25/2020

Hello, <br><br> Thanks for reading. If you are of points, how are you contacting people here? I am using malepuppylips on k.i.k. <br><br> I enjoy breast , rope , anal, spanking, role , taboo, /, Mother/, Doctor/patient, etc., collar and leash, caging, pet , nipple stretching, anal stretching, anal plugs, bondage, hot wax, etc... <br><br> ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 28 Votes ,2.01 Score
jf23231 53 M
3 Articles
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insatiable always   12/10/2019

testimonials available


3 Comments, 25 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
asianat2008 69 M
124 Articles
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Beaches.   12/10/2019

It is astonishing to find out that all grown up boys and girls show fascination for to visit beaches and to further their love interest. On one such story, a boy meets a girl and both exchanges smiles and share sun tanning sleeping close to each other. The curves of girls attracts the attention of the grown up boy and he immediately request for a friendship. The girl was also good cake and she ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 18 Votes ,2.72 Score
4rwl233 43 M
14 Articles
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whores   12/10/2019

looking for a dirty whores that are into taboo its sometimes hard to find them but when you do find them they are into everything and want to try new things witch every woman like to see there limit


3 Comments, 34 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
Mrslittlebrat55 59 F
1 Article
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Spanking is needed in every relationship   12/3/2019

I feel that to buld a good relationship must have good communication an trust an have a good sense of humor.i have always felt that there should always be spanking in a lasting loving relationship


31 Comments, 218 Views, 59 Votes ,5.37 Score
kittiiara 47 F
8 Articles
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Finding the right Dom   10/28/2019

I'm finding it extremely difficult in finding a dom who fits in with my lifestyle. I love being dominated during play time but outside of that I require someone who is able to treat me equally. I need a dom who respects my profession and who is able to love me as well as dominate me. My last master fell in love with me then was no longer able to dominate me it was beyond frustrating. Is finding ...


9 Comments, 453 Views, 27 Votes ,5.98 Score
Sirforher2018 53 M
3 Articles
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How long has it taken you to be comfortable with your Dom as the submissive? Females...   10/2/2019

Establishing a D/s relationship takes time to build up trust, chemistry and the ability for a sub to let go. How long has it taken you to get there?


5 Comments, 50 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
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Chinese slaves   7/12/2019

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 7 Votes
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
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Chinese slaves   7/12/2019

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


3 Comments, 87 Views, 13 Votes ,1.80 Score
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
Score 0.0
Chinese slaves   7/12/2019

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
subredcbrm 44 F
3 Articles
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A day in the life of a 24/7 slave   7/12/2019

It is rarely the big events that make a relationship, it is a million small touches, a million small submissions, a constantly evovling gift between two people that for me looks like this.

i am often asked by friends, both lifestyle and vanilla, what being a slave means, or what it looks like in the day to day. So here it is.

5:45 am...yes way before the sun comes up my day ...


9 Comments, 576 Views, 24 Votes ,5.86 Score
quedog2subpurr 70 C
1 Article
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Married & D/s   7/12/2019

Reading many clips on lifestyle relationships during my journey, it never came across O/our thoughts that it would have a negative impact on the relationship. Majority of the posting based marriage & D/s together as negative. In that it would have a negative affect or effect on the relationship. Feelings of such would hinder O/ones role and performance.

...


5 Comments, 126 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
GoddessKell 55 F
3 Articles
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Online Relationships   7/12/2019

Do online relationship really progress to reality?

In all the years I have been online seeking a partner in BDSM and D.s play I have yet to have longivity from being online. Of course, I have to say that I have met many good men and women, but no man has captured my time and attention enough for me to even remotely want to take it to the next level.

Do you think its because once ...


4 Comments, 218 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
salisburycpl2 38 C
1 Article
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new to this   7/12/2019

hi i am francesca i am 25 yrs old my fella is 21 , hes very intrested in a 3sum or 4sum altho no full swap being a nice gf and intrested in this anyway i said sure lets join up here and see how it goes so here is my 1st article and i will post more as it progresses salisburycpl2...


6 Comments, 117 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
AlphaLthr 74 F
36 Articles
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Early Stages of Online Relationships   7/12/2019

Something catches your eye about their post... You may like something they said, perhaps the site has told you he was the match for you, or maybe the smile said this is a genuine person, I want to get to know... <br><br> What is online is often so far from the real person that you can’t begin to imagine, later, when you look back, what was the connection in the first place... One ...


13 Comments, 152 Views, 33 Votes ,4.89 Score
CarolineIsYours 40 F
7 Articles
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minus three extremities..   7/12/2019

everything but intercourse or giving, the session is $80 a limited time Nicholasville, Kentucky. See my <br><br> website www.commodityadult.com <br><br> And more freevideos www.commodityadult.com model/candyCastle <br><br> And live now free on webcam www.commodityadult.com blog/WineForCandy <br><br> Passionate. I enjoy foreplay, passion, slow, ...


1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Who does what even in Femdom   7/2/2019

It appears that in many cases it is up to the man to begin the communication and continue building the relationship from that start. That is, being the aggressor at the beginning of the relationship. Even in a female lead relationship.


2 Comments, 86 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
kk4q69 62 M
1 Article
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Subs Are Born Not Made   5/28/2019

I very fortunate in having vast and varied experience at sharing the D/s experience with female subs who are truly authentic in their sexual submissiveness. Authentic subs are submissive at their core. They don’t to be trained to be a sub. It is as natural as breathing to them. They already know and feel it inside. The authentic sub simply needs to be brought to and express her natural and ...


4 Comments, 58 Views, 17 Votes ,2.42 Score
gintonik46 68 F
5 Articles
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You Should Not Give Away That Which You Value!   5/24/2019

I am very curious as to the reasoning for a Dom who insists on sharing his sub with his friends or/and animals. Why? When a submissive gives their all to a Dom/Master it is one very big deal! To trust another with your heart is giving a lot but to trust another with your physical safety, to let them have the power to advise you, to punish you and to use you at their will is an incredible ...


1 Comments, 184 Views, 166 Votes ,9.14 Score
master_anguish 51 M
1 Article
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Hard to find a mate   5/19/2019

I know this might sound like whinning, but is it getting harder to find someone that is compatible with you, specially if they are not in the same area? <br> It seems that we want relationships but aren't willing to make sacrafices (relocation, change in status, etc.). Maybe I am wrong but what is the opiion of you guys?


1 Comments, 45 Views, 16 Votes ,4.74 Score
oscarthegrouch3 49 M
3 Articles
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QUALITIES OF A DOMINANT FROM A SUBS VIEW   4/25/2019

When choosing to gift your submission, what is the thing you look for above all else, if you had a top ten of traits, qualities you look for, what would be your number 1?


4 Comments, 417 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
zennflower 61 F
10 Articles
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Aftercare...Why is it so important?   4/24/2019

zennflowerAftercare is the time taken after the scene that brings the sub back to the top out of sub space. It's where bonding between the Dominant and sub takes place or perhaps a better way of putting it is the re-enforcing of the bond between the two. Aftercare lets both know that for the two of them it's more than just play, more than just scening that the ...


14 Comments, 800 Views, 64 Votes ,8.01 Score
ColneaJoans 67 F
1 Article
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First Contact Advice to a submissive man   2/2/2019

I just answered an alt message/email from someone who was attracted to me. Perhaps some of what I said will be helpful to other submissive men who are facing the enormous hurdle of getting a dominant lady to notice them.

Of course, a big MUST, is to read the Lady's profile carefully , and Her blogs or posts in the "Groups" on alt so that you know how to write something that might be ...


4 Comments, 523 Views, 20 Votes ,5.04 Score
LilHotSexy1 58 C
1 Article
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Out With Old In With New???   2/2/2019

I have recently started dating a guy who I like very much. He likes me too but we seem to have a situation that is causing us problems. He has a woman he's known awhile and she has an 18 year old , they (the mom & him) were bed buddies before we hooked up, I found out he has been texting & calling both mom & & not telling me so I didn't get upset, I am uncomfortable with this, but is it right ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
bootlckboy39 50 M
14 Articles
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Why Africa or Asia?   11/13/2018

Seems odd someone posting in africa or asia in variety of language when looking. Picking a language seems easy unless not serious.


2 Comments, 10 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
ShogunMaster 67 M
4 Articles
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On Trust & Faith   10/28/2018

As those of you who have been checking in know, I have been giving this quite some thought and have come to quite the unexpected conclusion. You can also read this on my blog On Trust Faith. Read on!

I have written in the past on Trust and have penned highly raved essays that sounded great with all the right words and phrases. We all hear that trust is one of cornerstones of this ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
OLD_WHITESLAVE 69 M
3 Articles
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Memories that now make sense   10/28/2018

When I was a young boy, there was a married Woman nearby and they lived with her Mother. She was around 30s, attractive, both her and the mother were well dressed and made up always. When they went out, the woman and her mother would walk together chatting, he would walk about 3 yards behind them being ignored. On the return from shopping, he would be walking behind them carrying the bags. I ...


3 Comments, 113 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
Touch_You 67 M
12 Articles
Score 0.0
Chinese slaves   10/28/2018

I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai. First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the street where she approached me and tried to sell her services. I turned her down and told her that she should join me for her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...


2 Comments, 152 Views, 24 Votes ,3.13 Score
Filthypleasure89 34 M
3 Articles
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Are people here for something more?   6/26/2018

I am only assuming here but I imagine most people here are highly sex driven individuals; people who think about sex for the majority of the day. Chatting is the norm, meets are a given but what about relationships. Are people here to find a relationship and hopefully find love? <br><br> With standard dating sites, you get to know the person first and then after meeting I guess the ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Brandalynna 34 F
7 Articles
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my new Group Stepford Women/1950s lifestyle any one can join.   5/8/2018

please join and enjoy....


1 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
lovlylatina 56 F
2 Articles
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Wait until you are chosen   12/28/2017

As we are all searching for the right partner. Don't assume because you identify as a Dom it gives you the right to instantly make demands or to disrespect someone. Untill a sub chooses you, you are not her/his Dom. Respect is earned not instantly given. Being chosen as a Dom is a gift not an entitlement.


4 Comments, 44 Views, 18 Votes ,5.44 Score
SirFun1964 59 M
1 Article
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Takes Time   5/19/2017

If you want a good relationship, you need to take the time to get to know one another. Rushing into it when you hardly know each other usually ends up not working out.


1 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
sirraden1972 51 M
6 Articles
Score 0.0
EFFORT AND TIME   4/14/2017

IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Cumshot9078 38 F
1 Article
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hi there   2/5/2017

I have tried all the normal dating sites and now am here. Looking for a relationship. I have found that some of us have an inner strength and some of us don't. Honesty, loyalty and honor are the ground works for any good relationship. It would seem when you are honest you run the risk of being scorned by many. I am not saying from the moment we meet all will be perfect, that is and would be ...


3 Comments, 117 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
BobWRuns 73 M
3 Articles
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Guide to Establishing Dominance   1/23/2017

Guide to Establishing Dominance 9/10/05 To be an Owner, you have to establish and maintain your authority or dominance as the Owner and the slave's recognition that they are a slave to you, their Owner. Rarely are you in a committed Owner/slave relationship at the beginning of the relationship with your desired slave. And, you will probably never get your slave without ...


4 Comments, 2657 Views, 122 Votes ,3.49 Score
sirraden1972 51 M
6 Articles
Score 0.0
EFFORT AND TIME   1/22/2017

IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER.


1 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
ddprincess 44 F
1 Article
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DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE DATING/NETWORK   1/12/2017

DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE NETWORK http://alt.com FORUMS BLOGS INSTANT MESSAGING VIDEO CHAT VIDEOS GROUPS FORUMS AND MUCH MORE


0 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Master_Big_D 53 M
2 Articles
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When chosing a sub, does race really matter?   10/27/2016

I'm open to any race that wants to be with me, but sometimes I get the feeling that the stigma of race is in the air when I'm searching for the sub to be with. I'm still first, and foremost, a gentleman, and a scholar ( college educated with a 3.0 GPA) , and I do dress to impress on first meets.


2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Doc_Sonar 66 M
19 Articles
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Do the Basic Laws of Life Remain Relevant…   9/25/2015



...Upon Entering a BDSM Relationship?

Suppose I said that, many of the traits we try to find in our fetish partners , we also look for in every potential partner? How true is that?

What if I sad that no one has ever 'miracled' themselves into an ideal relationship? Maybe Fate or Chance did their parts, but I wouldn’t count on it. It’s like Somebody’s ...



0 Comments, 74 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
buttlacky 76 M
10 Articles
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Second chance   9/25/2015

Just an expression of thanks for dominant women who give a guy a second chance after he screws up an introduction. Cheers.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Wodwosen 68 M
1 Article
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Mescaline but Submissive Gentlemen, Can It Exists or Is It Delusional!   2/8/2015

I am a mature gentlemen in has late fifties who sees himself as being a mescaline man while a gentlemen by the nature of the way I was raised. But I am also sexually submissive to women and enjoy being dominated by a lady during play. I would like to ask you ladies out there can a man be seen as mescaline especially out in the vanilla word we live in, a gentleman with proper etiquette and being ...


3 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
shekaass112 36 F
1 Article
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a real relationship   1/28/2015

what it takes to be with the person u love so much n yal cant not please each other and the person have to get alone with the person u love or fall in with n yal got to talk to each other n yal may have disagree sometimes that normal n yal have to support each other in everyway


1 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
classactwilts 61 M
1 Article
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humiliating Sarah, the first time   4/12/2014

All my stories are true unless stated.

I do have a few ideas of fiction I would like to write and will do, sometime. For example about a man who can’t pay his debt to me and the consequences he has to pay, his wife for a weekend.

Another, hopefully amusing as well, about a lady who goes to something like and meets the people running it. They agree to have her for a day to tie ...


1 Comments, 338 Views, 16 Votes ,6.66 Score
sosexy38 40 F
2 Articles
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New to this   10/18/2012

Hi I'm new to this life and i got my first slave I'm looking for some help i don't what I'm doing having trouble controlling him so i ask all the doms & subs out there to share there know how with me


2 Comments, 147 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
MASTERTW1STED 51 M
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Building a Relationship through Humiliation   9/28/2012

Humiliation has many purposes in the training of a slave. One of the major reasons for using humiliation is to force the slave to push the "choice decision" she has made to obey her Master/Mistress and be subject to his/her will. It forces her to realize how deeply this decision is and how obedience is not always easy. This provides positive reinforcement.

Humiliation can have a positive ...


1 Comments, 375 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
GoddessKell 55 F
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TRUST, HONEST and INTEGRITY....   9/20/2012


Since I have been active in this lifestyle (8yrs) I have learned 3 important lessons in this wonderful lifestyle of BDSM and D.s; they are TRUST, HONESTY and INTEGRITY. I want to share this with anyone who will take the time to read what I have myself learned.
TRUST is an essential requirement in establishing a BDSM and ...


5 Comments, 336 Views, 24 Votes ,6.99 Score
Mollena 53 F
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Why dominants need welts, too!   8/11/2012

I recently read about a dominant who switches being tut-tutted by submissives who insist that they are not a "Real Dominant."





*shudder*

I also have heard dominants assert that they refuse to bottom.



Should someone who is not self-identified as a top or dominant ever switch?



In a ...


2 Comments, 127 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
slave20000 52 F
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I have loved!!!   4/18/2012

Yes, I have loved you, do I understand you?....some Do I love you? Yes, theres not a doubt in my mind. To love one is to give them time to grow, yes, I have grown. I told you I was proud of you, some yes, alot no! I thought you were different, perhaps, so was I. I wish you happiness, a waterfront property! For me its my family, you and my cubs. I guess we screwed up and ofcourse were ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 18 Votes ,2.03 Score
slave20000 52 F
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My Public Apology   4/18/2012

Need to apologize, for alot. See ive made terrible mistakes, for fear...fear of myself. Ive done alot of growing...thanks to you and thanks to who have shown me I am. Maybe it was a dream. It was an honest dream. I knew id make it up to you and if you let me ill show you. Yes I snap, but, you like it that way...you pull the right string and stad the same wound. I will always be yours, for ...


0 Comments, 216 Views, 45 Votes ,2.50 Score
slave20000 52 F
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R diamonds a girls best friend   4/18/2012

Can wealth and diamonds realy fill the void in someones (a dommes) soul. i think NOT! i think the jewels will keep the domme entertained for a while, not very long though...it cant compare the true power exchange...in my life, i believe in the power exchange, i have lived it. can anything else even compare? how long will it take her to venture out and find the one thing that does make her ...


1 Comments, 240 Views, 32 Votes ,1.74 Score
MASTERTW1STED 51 M
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Twisted banter..   4/14/2012

We A/all know communication is the key to any type of relationship. So here's an example of how it works within a humiliation one, for those of you who don't already know..

Communicating with worthless pigs. As we all know, stupid slut females love to talk but are often very poor listeners. Teaching the cunts effective and respectful communication techniques should be the cornerstone of ...


7 Comments, 284 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
anenigmale 61 M
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Collars and Getting Over   3/30/2012

As I cruise thru this li'l playpen that is My life, every now and then, I find myself reevaluating, and sometimes even second guessing, my views about the most fundamental of my beliefs. Examining what my feelings were, are, and what, in fact, is still changing.. I had the opportunity of chatting with a lovely submissive the other night, and thought that the overall ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Ben_Leads 59 M
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Sensitive Dom?   1/7/2012

Hi and thanks for reading! Maybe you can help me? When I look at how I treat my "Toy" it feels like I am to kind... I enjoy the ideation of them being helpless and at my mercy! I enjoy satisfying their needs above my own.

Always believed that a "Sub" is the one that has the real power! Do you agree? They say how far they will go and when to stop!

What I am getting at is I feel ...


2 Comments, 178 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
colette77 46 F
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How soon is too soon?   8/14/2011

Do you think that you should give up everything all at once or space it over a period of time? I've thought about this from time to time. I'm an honest person really so I dont lie all you have to do is ask? So not letting someone know something about you seems decietfully almost. Not that you should give complete strangers your whole life story, but if you really think that this person is ...


5 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
MsLise 52 F
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Lay down Ground Rules   8/14/2011

You have met Mr/Ms Right or Sub/Slave perfect...Now the work begins for both sides. If you are master/mistress...lay down the ground rules for the relationship....be it short term...long term...causal...24/7 etc. Don't assume someone knows something ...but it in black and white and you have no problems...You choose the path that needs to be taken for the situation but never leave out some form ...


6 Comments, 324 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
TomBonow 75 M
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New Gay Men   8/13/2011

Rainbow Power Today with the male homosexuality so out of the closet so to speak, the Adulteress affair might sound something like this. Hello Jim, is Carol gone to work yet? Susan left for her Seminar in the Bahamas, come on over you big Burt and bring that polish you got in your basket upright and ready, my asshole is quivering.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
oscarthegrouch3 49 M
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QUALITIES OF A SUB FROM A DOMINANTS VIEW   7/11/2011

When choosing a sub, what would be your wish list, if you had a top ten of qualities, traits which would endear a sub to you, what would you choose, what do you look for, is it personality, lack of perhaps, inteligence, looks?

What is the number 1 thing you look for?


4 Comments, 312 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
TomBonow 75 M
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Cooking at Home   7/8/2011

Cooking Honey incest is best! Roll your own and kept it in the family. A family that sleeps together stays together! Blood is thicker than water! Trust the ones you love, and the only ones you can trust are your family! Stick together forever and you’ll always have each it other; they only have themselves! Honey, did mommy leave to go shopping? Yes Daddy! Good, go put on the new red dress I ...


2 Comments, 104 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
MPCouple 69,1968 C
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When The Dominant Becomes Gravely Ill   3/29/2011

I have been enjoying the total power exchange for 20 plus years with girlfriends, renters, other slaves and wives. I had prepared for the day by not totally destroying the slave’s own fire as some desire but to control her. Besides I like the ones with “fire†not the ones who are so totally submissive that you have to tell them everything. I did that when younger and found out it ...


2 Comments, 784 Views, 95 Votes ,8.42 Score
s1nfullynaughty 41 M
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The most important quality..   12/12/2010

As I have come to realize, there is one quality out there that is more important than all the other ones.. ESPECIALLY in this lifestyle..

I would suggest everyone try and get up to speed with this, as it will create a more comfortable, trusting, and exciting dynamic!

NEVER JUDGE!

Also, make it clear from the start that you don't judge people, and you'll be surprised ...


3 Comments, 172 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
zennflower 61 F
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Sub Drop-a very real phenomena   11/20/2010

"Sub-Drop" Over my experiences in the lifestyle it has never ceased to amaze and frustrate me how many people understand what 'sub-space' is, but have no idea what 'sub-drop' is. The truth of the matter is I discovered what it was by experiencing it, and asking for help. I was asked if I was experiencing 'sub-drop' and after a long discussion I was both relieved and worried, to admit ...


18 Comments, 953 Views, 68 Votes ,8.87 Score
BobWRuns 73 M
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Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male   8/20/2010

Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male 1/29/06 <br> This is intended to provide a guide in establishing and maintaining dominance over a male which can lead to development of a modern day slave. It is a process that can be used to develop dominance over a natural submissive applying to be a slave or an unaware, vanilla, non-submissive. How long it may take and ...


3 Comments, 910 Views, 16 Votes ,6.80 Score
MsPierced 50 F
3 Articles
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What it Means to be a Ma'am   5/16/2010

"Ma'am, all I want to do is be of service to You." Sounds familiar, doesn't it? But the real surprise to most people is that, in many ways, the Ma'am is in service to Her property. This contradiction in terms is the cornerstone of being a Dominant. I will be discussing Lifestyle, 24/7 Dominance and submission. These concepts don't necessarily apply to all situations or relationships, ...


3 Comments, 336 Views, 28 Votes ,7.86 Score
mischiefangel 64 F
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Tall Ships, Shinning Stars, Brass Rings and Water Meter Covers   11/14/2009

Tall Ships, Brass Rings, Shinning Stars and Water Meter Covers.....

We all think that we know just what we want; just what we’d wish for if given a chance, but in actuality, how many of us get the opportunity to reach for that star shinning so brightly in the night sky or the magical carousel’s brass ring? How many get to board that tall ship and sail into our destiny?

...


3 Comments, 86 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
slave_david3 55 M
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Learning to serve: the real life slave   11/5/2009

Having experienced serving many Mistresses over the last 5 years, a yearning grew in me to be a real life slave to a Mistress. I would think about this constantly, and the more a fantasized about the prospect, the more profound my yearning became. In fact, it became an obsession. The thought or being truly owned, both body and mind, the idea of giving total and absolute obedience in total ...


3 Comments, 206 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
steelbreezz2 68 M
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Finding "The One"   10/12/2009

I'd like to discuss a long time frustration of mine- women only interested in finding "The One".

Seems like a whole lot of women, submiisve or otherwise, won't have even a conversation with a guy if he can't be deemed immediately "The One".

Now I realize that nobody wants to be used or have their little heart broken, but really ladies, you need to lighten up.

Finding ...


3 Comments, 149 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
agoodslave4 52 M
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Getting your wife to lead   9/25/2009

Many times my wife and I have tried and failed to initiate a D/s relationship. I always knew she was capable of being a female dominant, based on the early years of our relationship, but only now do I realized where I made errors.

I should never have written contracts with so many rules and details. It's like starting at 60 mph. Even though we both signed each time we tried, the ...


1 Comments, 173 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
acura25 44 T
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Is it me?   7/17/2009

Every where I read are success stories but when I try to contact some one I do not get a response ? How do you get someone to notice you...How ever I was not interested in , i send out a one liner polite answer. Is it not the write thing to be honest or what ???


5 Comments, 147 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
AJW1 54 M
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Slavery and Servitude   6/8/2009

Can a slave say no, it's a question to which I believe there is no definitive answer, but to Me the answer is simply no. Grins at this point the submissives go running to the door screaming red light and calling 911. Simply put slavery is putting the life in the hands of their Master and after that the slave should have two choices obey or leave, but rationally at times a third exists beg, and ...


2 Comments, 169 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
jamunaa 42 F
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FUN AND FUCK   3/3/2009

HAAI..I AM A 29 YEARS GIRL ..ONE DAY ONE OF MY FRIEND CAME TO MY HOME WITH HER HUSBOND..ACTULLY THE MISSED THIER BUS AND CAME TO OUR HOME FOR NIGHT STAY..WE TOOK THE DINNER TOGHETER AND THEY INCIST ME TO JOIN THEM FOR FUN I WAS THINKING BUT SLOWELY HE STARTED TO TOUCH MY BODY..FIRST HE STARTED TO RUB MY SHOULDER AND OPINCH MY BOOBS WHEN HE IS PLAYING WITH MY BODY MY FRIEND STARTED TO LIFT MY ...


4 Comments, 493 Views, 26 Votes ,1.41 Score
Pairadoxak 62 M
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On relationships...   12/9/2008

Its been said that the biggest mistake men make going into a relationship is to believe that the gal will stay the same, and that the biggest mistake women make going into a relationship is to believe that the guy will change (in the way they want him to). Both are wrong, indeed somewhat happily so. To remain the same would be to become stagnant, and to change completely means that at some inner ...


1 Comments, 133 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
gqgreeneyez 39 M
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How I view Serious M/s Relationships   10/20/2008

You will also find this on my profile as it would help a perspective slave gain an understanding of my views of the M/s relationship.

I have had a couple FTPE (full time power exchange) relationships that were really more my thing although I enjoy a "bedroom only" M/s relationship too, I like the structure it provides... What turns me on about it is: the total power over someone else, ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
like2bpunished 52 F
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How can I get my husband to be turned on by being dominant?   6/26/2008

I'm looking for advice on how to turn a vanilla into a dominant. Any ideas? He will do a light hand spanking, go from behind and make me go down on him and talk a little dirty. However, it is rare and takes a little prodding from me. I've tried watching porn with him and movies and telling him what I like. I guess I feel like it sort of ruins the scene when the submissive is trying to ...


4 Comments, 112 Views, 22 Votes ,7.33 Score
ShogunMaster 67 M
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How Well Do You Listen To You?   5/17/2008

How well do you listen to yourself? How closely do you pay attention to your "gut instincts"? How well do you take action based on this information?

These gut instincts were originally named as the information comes from our "gut" or power center. The seat of our life force, what in the East is called Chi.

We'd like to believe that what someone tells about themselves to be true. ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
youngdutty88 35 M
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getting back with an ex   3/20/2008

i was wondering wat are some ways to show or prove to ya ex that u fucked up and want to get back together. the fact is my ex says that i will always be in her heart damn i fucked up when i told her it might not work cause she moved so far. i need help. any suggestions


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DarkDesiresNYC 56 C
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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution   2/3/2008

Hello, <br> We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently wrote. Any comments are welcome! <br> Happy holidays! Sir Eric <br> <br> The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution* <br> "You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You own the responsibility of your property - whether it is real estate, slaves or your ...


4 Comments, 410 Views, 32 Votes ,4.27 Score
DarkDesiresNYC 56 C
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Bonding and Spirituality in D/s   2/3/2008

Service is an essential part in many D/s relationships and it provides a natural way to bond between Master and slave (or dominant and submissive -- throughout this essay for simplicity, we will refer to the dominant as Master and the submissive as slave). However, most service is task and goal oriented. In other words, the slave is given orders to complete a set of assignments. It is ...


2 Comments, 604 Views, 11 Votes ,5.97 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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Help needed...   10/6/2007

Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about. So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation and with that came the ...


7 Comments, 797 Views, 29 Votes ,5.95 Score
bound_sweetness 65 F
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Looking for a good relationship   9/23/2007

Forgive my insertion of opinion here but, .... so many people here have voiced disappointment with the failings of a relationship and maintaing it... so .. here's what i think. What many seek is M/s (Master/slave or Master/submissive) not D/s as strictly defined.Yes, sadly it is true. Most toppy type dominants are just bossy people who get off getting their own way in what is typically a ...


4 Comments, 673 Views, 44 Votes ,5.24 Score
TheVampmaster 55 M
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Understanding   9/23/2007

While building up a relationship it's very important to take two features into consideration.

1. Priorities are no the same, for man and woman, hence interest tend to vary, besides most man are not multitasking. While a woman can watch a movie and talk with a friend, if a woman approaches a man who is looking into a football game, he tends to either ignore the woman, or ...



0 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
NoBDSMBS 59 M
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Knowing more about BDSM than your partner   7/31/2007

I have trained women who are experienced in BDSM, and on'e who are just learning about it, and what they want to gain from the experience. I tend to take it slower with newbies so as not to make it too intense to start. I like to feel out whether they are just looking to be tied up and f*cked, or if they are truly looking to give up control at a greater level...more of a Master/slave situation. ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
louonkneels4u 84 M
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Belated Birthday Surprise   7/29/2007

Where is She? Where can She be? I just keep wondering. It has been almost 45 minutes now since She called saying She was leaving and headed my way. I have had time to check into the Ramington Inn, get maintenance to come get the door open for me when the key wouldn’t work, get undressed, put the chain leashes on the bed in case She wants to spreadeagle me on it and now it seems I have been ...


1 Comments, 103 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
ThdersMist 57 F
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How do I learn to trust again?   7/26/2007

I am a lifetime submissive. I currently am in a 24/7 with my Master. My problem is trust. Because of past issues with Doms not being honest and faithful, I am having a hard time trusting my Master. We met a yr ago and I knew he had other slaves. He knew I was not poly and gave up his slaves and his life in CA to come live with me in a small town. However he keeps his slaves online and keeps in ...


6 Comments, 82 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
fiestyfi 42 F
14 Articles
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I don't understand...   6/29/2007

Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through an extremely ...


2 Comments, 459 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
BoyC 42 M
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Building a relationship   6/12/2007

When you want to build a relationship, first off, make sure you are truly in love with the person. Don't confuse love with a passing, temporary infatuation. Spend some good, quality time with that person. Notice how often you two have sex with each other. If after a year or two, the sex is still great, then go for it. If not, then it's time to call it quits before someone's feelings get ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Lady_Aurora2005 72 F
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Long Distance Relationships   5/29/2007

Being in a long distance relationship, takes two people that believe in trust. When I speak of trust, it must engulf your entire relationship. Every day I send an email and talk on the phone with my loved one. Sometimes I feel so good after hearing him and other times my heart aches more not having him with me. We never take our love for granted each time we spend together we jam a month ...


7 Comments, 1070 Views, 69 Votes ,7.23 Score
yummymummy 66 F
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an offering to the internet gods   5/13/2007

One day in a moment of great emotion with my Master i uttered the words, “i wish i could give up an offering to the internet gods to thank them!’ my Master thought about this and then told me that i could do just that by writing an account of “the story so far†and posting it as an article on alt.com for all to see. This is that account. <br> <br> my story begins ...


1 Comments, 111 Views, 27 Votes ,7.76 Score
fireflymaster 69 M
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Gaining the trust of first timer submissives   4/6/2007

I sincerely think that there are a number of so called Doms that never listen to a submissives needs. No joking, to build up trust is the first priority, then you can extend limits, introduce new ideas. Whenever I have a newbie submissive I explain what I intend to do and ask if there is anything that they are unhappy about. If there is we discuss it, if necessary modify the idea. ...


1 Comments, 378 Views, 17 Votes ,5.25 Score
Downtown2006 42 M
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Proper Speech Equitete   4/3/2007

When courting a Domme, how should a new submissive act?
I was wondering, is there a proper speech etiquette when talking when a Submissive is talking to a Domme? I'm a little new, and I don't want to put anyone off. Are there any words I should not say, or be hesitant in saying?
Also, when meeting in public, is there a proper way I should act? Or should I just be ...


0 Comments, 297 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
master_pharoh 50 C
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You Can’t Go Home Again -- Or Can you?   4/1/2007

Thomas Wolfe’s critically acclaimed novel, You Can’t Go Home Again, was published in 1940. The novel chronicles a man’s search for himself and centers on the theme that you cannot recover the past. This novel came to my mind when I began reading a book entitled Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life: How to Finally Really Grow Up by James Hollis (2005).
Wolfe’s novel ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
colette77 46 F
10 Articles
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Are Harems Okay   3/31/2007

Ive been wondering if people think that having many subs is okay? My Master has his little harem, I call them since I dont include myself personally in with them. Is that wrong...? im the jealous type so it took some getting used to. But I finally gave over control of those issues to him and asked what I needed and now I feel better....


5 Comments, 236 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
saintisabella 47 F
3 Articles
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Can you ignore your nature?   3/20/2007

So ever since I was a little girl I knew that there was something different about me. as a I enjoyed it when I got spanked, (Which was often)LOL! I remember when I was 14 I was at gym after school and I had a crush on a teachers aid that was 18. One day after everyone had left, I was alone with this guy and he asked me to come to the back office with him because he wanted to show me ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 15 Votes ,4.20 Score
cccc04 45 C
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my take on building a relationship   3/8/2007

be 100 percent you want to start it before you begin it as the are full time work at the start so you dont have time to think about if there the perfect one because you need all the time you can get making it the perfect one


1 Comments, 92 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
jre1997 44 M
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How can you build a succesfull relationship starting with a computer?   2/28/2007

Is it even possible? How can you get away with it when some of the people you meet are married and want a discreet relationship? Sex only is good if you know that going in but not if you don't and are expecting something else entirely. I guess I'm just not good at weeding out what I don't want yet.


6 Comments, 169 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
gentlerain44 64 F
2 Articles
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Training by Rob Hart   2/13/2007

"I want to be trained." <br> These are delightful words to hear. They show desire; they promise fun; and they speak of trust. But what does it mean to train a submissive? It is far more than instructing a submissive on the expectations of a particular Dominant, or making her a good "generic slave" (there being no such thing). It is also never a one-way flow of information or ...


3 Comments, 894 Views, 43 Votes ,8.83 Score
MsPierced 50 F
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What it Means to be a slave   2/1/2007

I may have a different definition of a slave than most so I will explain that first. For Me, a slave is not someone who gives up their rights as human beings. A slave is someone that in many ways must be just as strong as their Dominant. Case in point. At a run, a Dominant may want to stay out late and play and may not have eaten. The slave must be the one who makes sure the Dominant ...


0 Comments, 418 Views, 25 Votes ,7.45 Score
lillymax001 44 C
2 Articles
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trust   1/8/2007

i have given this some thought, and still havent come up with the right answer. Is there an right answer?? How do you let your gaurd down to trust someone? You hear of bad things happening all the time and that scares me, we play in a world that can be scary, but i think thats the fun of it. But can it be taken too far?


3 Comments, 125 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
GIVESandTAKES4 73 M
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My last business trip   12/16/2006

I checked into a hotel on a business trip and was a bit lonely so I thought I'd get me one of those girls you see advertised in phone booths when your calling for a cab.



I grabbed a card on my way in. It was an ad for a girl calling herself Erogonique, a lovely girl, bending over in the photo.



She had all the right ...


0 Comments, 963 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
mistress_moyra 55 F
4 Articles
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From first chat to collaring   12/5/2006

Dear men, <br> Dominant or submissive, Master or slave, I believe there are a few things you need to know if you haven't figured them out all ready. <br> Level 1: If you are trying to start a relationship on Alt.com or any other BDSM site, firstly knock it off with the cock shots! Do you seriously think this is what is going to turn a Woman on (I'm sorry, but I ...


9 Comments, 443 Views, 182 Votes ,7.92 Score
powerdemon666 52 M
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No toes left   12/3/2006

Think i keep shooting myself in the foot by being to open and honest about what i want as most "doms" just read the profile of a sub and say "hay guess what i like what you like".I am so sick of the fakes on here, you can talk to a sub for a month but when you come to meet up there always a problem!(i hear its just as bad for subs looking for doms, they get told they are going to get used ...


0 Comments, 293 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
TwistedInstinct 63 M
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She is MY cunt !!   11/28/2006

She is my cunt


Look at the animal world , males battle each other to insure their sperm lives ! now females go to be protected by a strong male that has more than one female , in fact the scent of woman attracts females .
I had divorce court today , first time I have really seen my adorable lil 25 year old future ex wife in a year ..( dam this case ...


2 Comments, 256 Views, 7 Votes
blisst 57 M
3 Articles
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going nowhere   11/2/2006

Hello .Iam finding it very difficult to get any response from any of the women on this site.Its very frustrating.Im a very shy type of person and find it difficult to express my sexual fantasies.I know im anonymous, which makes it easier.I want to explore and have fun but im just a loser.I obviously am ugly or unsuitable for some reason.Being a loner isnt easy for me. I want to be ruled ...


3 Comments, 174 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Giantdom71 52 M
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How long is a peice of rope?   10/22/2006

It seems to me that everyone is rushing aboput in their daily lives. Is speed the essence of living? I believe that when entering into a bdsm relationship, that he time taklen to get to know yourself and that of your partner is crucial. If not enough time is taken to self acknowledge your feelings emotions, fantasies, etc then how can you be truthful and open with your partner? My ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 22 Votes ,6.37 Score
9inchblackhorse 41 M
2 Articles
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please help... any counsellors (a women's reply would help me more)   10/5/2006

I've got a very strange problem with my girlfriend... what do i do... please help...
i have a girl friend and she's really sweet and we both are in love for about a year now... we both get along very well and we understand each other perfectly... And most of all we both respect each other very much...
But my girlfriend is having some health problems... VERY COMPLICATED ...


4 Comments, 164 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
papabear_1969 54 M
1 Article
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Looking For Info   10/4/2006

I am looking for consent forms, or anything of the sort. Trying to find forms and documents to havemy sub complete to see what she is willing to submit too and what she isn't. Still new at this and I haven't built up my library of knowledge yet. If you have any please help me.


0 Comments, 111 Views, 0 Votes
masterzad 40 M
5 Articles
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Relationships   9/22/2006

99% of relationships are based on lies


0 Comments, 157 Views, 11 Votes
FatDickTop 59 M
4 Articles
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“Life as a bottoms’ top†  9/8/2006

Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling. I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do not enjoy the same at ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Carl86 37 M
2 Articles
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Too much information too soon?   8/24/2006

Is it possible to reveal too much about one's self too soon in a relationship?
I'm the kind of guy that will answer you truthfully about anything you ask with little to no forethought about the repercussions my answer may cause. Despite my usual quietness, I'm not afraid to tell you what I think. But, there are times when I feel that I have said a little too much when it comes to ...


4 Comments, 238 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
daves_kat 41 F
1 Article
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reply to: how to say she's beautiful   7/27/2006

If it please you Sir. To tell a woman she is beautiful is nothing. But to show it, that is what matters. Hear it frim a woman. When you tell awoman she is beautiful and that you like to sleep on her boobs she talkes it at face value. When you take a nice long look at another woman passing by on the street you just erased your past 5 compliments. You must let it show that she is hot. If you ...


2 Comments, 647 Views, 97 Votes ,7.94 Score
Wolfman228 55 M
3 Articles
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From Russia With Love   7/27/2006

I've met a woman from Russia on a European website. She is 29 and I am 36. We've been writing emails back and forth and the relationship appears to be growing into a long distance one. She does not speak English very well and uses a translator program to read my emails. Out of respect I send her and email in English and another of the same content in Russian using a free online ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
ntxd4s 67 M
1 Article
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What is a submissive?   7/24/2006

Are you really submissive? the person submitting the profile says he/she is dominant. You reply saying you are submissive. You exchange a few emails and the dominant learns that when you say you are submissive, you mean, you like sexual intercourse from the standpoint of being the bottom. The person writing you disappears. You wonder why. The answer is that being bottom does not make ...


5 Comments, 2204 Views, 314 Votes ,5.92 Score
GoldMan234 51 M
6 Articles
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How can you be sure about the other?   7/21/2006

I am wondering who else has been in this situation? You are with a dom/sub they are already in a full relationship that is not dealing with bdsm/alt, their other half does not know anything about what they are into. So here is my question; If they are not being true to the other half and telling them nothing or lieing to them, how can you completely trust what they are saying to you as ...


1 Comments, 192 Views, 0 Votes
MistressDior 55 F
7 Articles
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Lying submissives   7/9/2006

Submissive men sometimes lie to Mistress. This happens when they want to present themselves as more submissive than they are. Should a Mistress dismiss a liar? I think, she could give him a chance to prove himself prior to dismissal. Set him a difficult task, do not forgive a liar easily.


1 Comments, 138 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
GloryGirl 65 F
1 Article
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Older Women and Younger Men   6/22/2006

I see that Alt are running a Poll and the question is directed at men. Perhaps it would interst people to know that a large majority of Fem Domme/submissive relationships are where the woman is older and the submissive is younger. <br> I am currently in such a relationship and the submissive is 13 years my junior. I originally had a lot of misgivings about just such a ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 43 Votes ,7.70 Score
Alohacovedreams 69 F
22 Articles
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A Mistress Speaks To Her Submissive: Regarding Chastity Devices   6/20/2006

Topically, my feelings are for the advantage of both of us when chastity devices are employed. They include your desire to turn over the ownership and control of your gender’s core--your sexuality. As well as my desire to possess and control your sexuality. (Admittedly so, this adds a flare of excitement and sexual arousal to our relationship, and that’s as it should be, but this too ...


2 Comments, 833 Views, 71 Votes ,6.43 Score
Mischievous3 48 C
1 Article
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Hard to find someone serious....   6/17/2006

Me and Mt pet has been looking for a possable live in. We have joined many of the groups for our location, have tried talking with many possabilities. We keep running into the same problem, someone says they are involved and or looking to learn. Then we start talking and thats all it is is talk, We havent found to many people actually aactive or serious in the kind of commitment We are ...


3 Comments, 97 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
milkmyts 57 F
2 Articles
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Adult Nursing   3/10/2006

My very first experience with adult nursing happpened quite by mistake. I had, had a miscarriage so my breast were leaking. the person I was dating came over to see how I was feeling. I mentioned to him that my breast were milking and he said that he had always wanted to try that. I removed one of my breast and allowed him to suckle ( I've always had a thing for having them sucked). It ...


2 Comments, 2471 Views, 139 Votes ,5.64 Score
justsomeone_29 50 M
2 Articles
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How to make your gf into a Dominatrix :)   3/8/2006

Hi What was the best way to gradually transform your gf from a normal girl to a fun domme? Any ideas on the matter, please share.


1 Comments, 149 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
Damage_Case 39 M
7 Articles
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nice and slow   3/1/2006

Was wondering if anyone else has experienced this. My first marraige was kind of one of those love at first site things. Now divorced I find myself extremely picky. That typical anyone?


0 Comments, 132 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
DRGINGER 72 M
2 Articles
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False Starts   2/25/2006

I am wondering if many people on Alt experience frustration. I sent a message to a couple that lives close by and explained it was always my dream to interact with a male/female couple. That very same day I recevied a message back from them. It was very inviting. They wanted to establish friendship first, which I always like to do before plunging into more physical events. In my first ...


1 Comments, 300 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
Doc_Sonar 66 M
19 Articles
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Opening Doors...   2/25/2006

"I Don’t Share...usually, " an acquaintance said. A shame, that - or is ‘too bad’ a better statement? <br> Not that the friend never disclosed, just rarely did, almost as if it were as precious and as worthy of care as a secret treasure. While there may be many other roots, I feel a major one is a fear of vulnerability, which many see as weakness, or being seen in a less ...


0 Comments, 161 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
MrBigJohn 74 M
5 Articles
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Dominant 101   2/17/2006

A dominant relation is one in which one person is given complete control. By expecting this control the dominant partner also assumes a level of responsibly for the other partner and the relationship. It’s not all just fun and play. Your role as the dominant requires that you to be the decision maker and the stabling influence in the relationship. If you’re not willing to except the ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 52 Votes ,8.16 Score
m9by7 54 M
1 Article
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Training and developing subs tips   2/12/2006

Most people consider others in a cookie cutter fashion, however in a Dom/Sub relationship there are a lot of areas that need to be identified. <br> 1. Does your Sub want to be obedient all the time, in the bedroom or just from time to time. <br> Example. I have had subs who want to be in it all the time at first, then only when we are together, then finally only in the ...


0 Comments, 458 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
bdsmnn 53 M
18 Articles
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nice   1/8/2006

Nice nad beauty!


1 Comments, 157 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
MistressBrenda2 63 F
7 Articles
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I fell in Love with my slave!   1/8/2006

It's strange for me to have to admit that I, a Mistress, fell in love with my slave. But it's true.When we met here on alt, I was envolved with somebody else and was just needing a friend.I met my one when I was at the point of ending my relationship with my b/f and just needed a friend to listen, tell me i was right or wrong without judging me.We became very close friends over the next few ...


1 Comments, 117 Views, 34 Votes ,6.48 Score
TheSorceress 59 F
3 Articles
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Building a Serious Relationship   1/8/2006

I've recently started coming back out of My sabbatical. That's a polite way of saying I was licking My wounds and now I think I've found out why so M/many come back. After the last time I got "burned", I swore I'd never return to seeking My one and only sub/slave. But I'm hoping that I am making some headway. I can understand why so M/many of My past F/friends have left. T/they felt ...


1 Comments, 263 Views, 70 Votes ,8.61 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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"practice make perfect"   1/8/2006

the art of communication is the key to a healthy relationship...n for most women, being in a healthy, intimate relationship is the foundation to great SEX....


2 Comments, 116 Views, 26 Votes ,5.18 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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***a woman needs***   1/8/2006

someone who cares about her well-being...n understand what she's going through...recognise n value her feelings.... someone to love freely n trust..that she will be loved in return... someone to notice her...love her n adore her... someone she can confide in..trustworthy n will not turn on her n break her confidence....


1 Comments, 70 Views, 29 Votes ,7.25 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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"a man needs"   1/8/2006

a woman to accept him just the way he is....trust him n be his friend....admire him for what he has done or tried to do....give him the opportunity to fulfil your needs.....surprise him n keep him on the boiling point when it comes to sex...share the fantasies...most of all nag him NOT....coz he will run n scare him not...coz men r also very sensitive n fragile....


2 Comments, 171 Views, 51 Votes ,6.72 Score
MsGenevieve666 48 F
1 Article
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Co-dependancy and slave owning   1/8/2006

Many dream of the perfect slave/owner relationship...one of devotion, disciple, function and feeling owned body mind and soul... This is a beautiful fantasy, but the reality can easily become unhealthy co-dependancy. In a safe, sane, and consensual ideal this isn't exactly sane. <br> Where is this line? Can one have a relationship that fulfills the fantasy and definition of ...


3 Comments, 363 Views, 34 Votes ,5.31 Score
NathaninDC 75 M
5 Articles
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New Group - Naughty Schoolgirl Memories   12/5/2005

come by and visit


1 Comments, 132 Views, 2 Votes
Masterandme2005 51 C
1 Article
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My first meeting with Master   12/5/2005

My first meeting with Master was a meeting I will never forget. I was excited that he would meet with me and nervous as to what to excpect. I am very new to this and wasn't quite sure what I wanted. I did know that I couldn't wait to meet him. We met at a public place and talked for what seemed like hours. I felt comfortable but yet knew I was being inspected to see if I was worthy of his ...


0 Comments, 543 Views, 24 Votes ,2.79 Score
elvana 51 F
26 Articles
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"a soulmate"   11/23/2005

a soul-mate is someone who has the unique ability to bring out the best in us....with a heart full of love, you will express your highest potential, while also fulfilling your soul's deepest purpose:to love n be loved !!


2 Comments, 76 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
WhoWillWhipMy 51 M
1 Article
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Finding the right one, but they leave you just before!!!   11/9/2005

I have noticed a lot on these websites that a person can find a good match, but when it comes time to meet, they lose all confidence and leave without a word or tell you that you are unworthy of their time. I'm extremely careful with what I show and do online, and also really look into a person to make sure they are safe as well. But you get past this point and however long it had taken ...


1 Comments, 285 Views, 0 Votes
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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Quiet vs talkative   10/8/2005

I have notice that most girls that stay to themselves are more active, when i say more active i mean when they find a man they can trust and feel comfortable around, she would show you a side of her that will outstand most forward girl!! think about it, just say you met this girl and shes real conservative and shy, you might start thinking that she might be boring in the bedroom!!! trust me ...


4 Comments, 171 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
LTs_star 45 F
1 Article
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The Reality of Vuilding Relationships on the Net   10/5/2005

Ok, let's be honest here... Looking through a screen (I like to call it an idiot box) is not really the most honest way to meet someone, especially in an area as sensitive as alternative lifestyles. <br> But you know what? It can work. I have been at alt for almost 2 years now. I have been collared to my wonderful Owner for 14 months. We met in the Southern Room here at alt. ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 44 Votes ,8.95 Score
letitbe 71 M
5 Articles
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What i have always known and yet it still got to me becareful   10/4/2005

My goodness you would think by looking at my profile and as long as i have been a slave if anyone in this world would know better it would be me. Yet here i am being a dummy and telling anyone who reads this becareful as you can get sucked in and not realize it and all of the sudden you end up with being in a very bad spot in your life. i can't memtion any names but some of the people ...


3 Comments, 1085 Views, 36 Votes
Angelus2814 38 M
1 Article
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Big surprise   9/26/2005

It all started at this party. We were all playing truth or dare; we were all having the time of our life. Now my friends all new that I’m straight and I have never backed down from a dare before. Any ways I was dared to suck on this girl’s breast and of course I did. After that I was a little hard then the girl I had just been sucking on dared the man right next to me to give the guy ...


0 Comments, 305 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
dynamitesneon 41 M
10 Articles
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across the ocean   9/12/2005

I've made a rather special friend who wants me to vist her in the philipines some day. Nothing abnormal about it, but she wants to do that. What's your take on it? Is it a bad idea to go to a country on vacation as a request? I think it'd be nice to go and all, but it seems like a lot to do for a friend.


0 Comments, 130 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
lookupinme 52 F
1 Article
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what is happening ?   9/9/2005

As I am very new at the internet and new to Alt, I am having trouble understanding my feelings..I have been single no sex for a while, I am finding myself really caught up in this life.thats what I am here for, but really talking deep.its all I think about..since I joined, just a question I would like others thoughts on is it easy to get caught up in the new excietment of this life style ...


2 Comments, 332 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
Ropeaholic 59 F
2 Articles
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Dommes--take a break now and then!   9/4/2005

I'm a lesbian domme. I'm a hardass, with strict protocol, and my submissive and I are always in role. I plan elaborate scenes, and we play very very hard. <br> Last weekend, she asked to take me out on a vanilla date. She asked that we be out of role. I protested a bit for the fun of it, then accepted. <br> That Saturday morning, I received a dozen roses. Then, when ...


1 Comments, 124 Views, 22 Votes ,7.45 Score
JTMRP2 54 M
16 Articles
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PREPARATION FOR THE SLAVE ASS   9/4/2005

To trian a slave ass takes a lot. First one must be willing to do the job.............every ass starts out-- OK- "I, m a ass"....but to be prefected each ass must undergo- specialized training. In order to accomplish slave training the master must be prepared to take the steps, bare the expense and work diligently to accomplish his or her goals.


2 Comments, 323 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
badboymecca 37 M
7 Articles
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Don't put all your eggs in one BASKET!!!!!   9/3/2005

I learned that if your starting a relatinship with a woman, that its best not to give her all your attention or go out your way 100% for her. Woman have a way that at first they will appreciate all the sweet things you say to her and do for her, then later on when the relationship go on for a while, all the same sweet things you say and do for her would somehow make her feel suffocated ...


1 Comments, 128 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
letitbe 71 M
5 Articles
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What in Earth is a Pure Trust slave Realtionship w/his(er)Owner   8/25/2005

i never heard of no limits until maybe 10 or 12 years aod to be honest. i have found (3) different Dominate Females and all True Dominats's those i think who where born with an extra gene as i was and is why i am as submissive as i am although i am afriad they did not realize at the time i was who i am and they where who they are.So even though i begged all of them to come and claim me ...


1 Comments, 124 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
lavo1999 36 M
3 Articles
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how do you do it?   8/24/2005

i need to find out how to build up a sucsessful sub/dom relationship! its so annoying all i want to do it to b abused and used in so many ways and its justnot happening:'( how do you do it? please tell me........:'(


0 Comments, 227 Views, 0 Votes
letitbe 71 M
5 Articles
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For me it started Very Early in my life with a childhood friend   8/13/2005

i guess all relationships start at some point or another but mine started if i am really to think about it around 9 or 10 years old with my childhood playmate who late became my girl friend and then my Mistress and then my Wife. So i guess we will start at the beginning and if you folks want to hear more let me know and i will continue (but understand i have changed names and places as ...


1 Comments, 184 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
slutsJM 71 M
7 Articles
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Body, Mind and Soul ... are you really out there?   8/6/2005

It is interesting to me that though we are all here on Alt.com to seek that which is beyond what most in general society call "the Norm", in many ways, we seek what our vanilla friends seek, as well. We just choose to look for the edges and in some cases the extremes in expressing our feelings with one another. Most vanilla people want someone who cares about them; they want someone with ...


3 Comments, 630 Views, 20 Votes ,6.70 Score
slavinnen 59 C
4 Articles
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When feelings does not grow at same speed...   8/6/2005

Is it unusual that feelings does not come/grow at same speed in a BDSM-relationship ? <br> And is it so that it maybe comes faster/stronger from the submissive part, because of the need to involve feelings to be able to give him/her self to a dominant ? <br> I have experienced this some times during my life; as submissive, I NEED to have feelings for the one I do give ...


3 Comments, 474 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
nikki_smiles 48 F
2 Articles
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If you really want to WOW your girl....   8/2/2005

I swear if you do this you will have her (or him) forever!!! <br> Purchase a dozen roses, go to your local arts and crafts store and purchase one silk rose. (You can get them looking so real!) Take one of the real roses out of the vase and place on her pillow. Add the silk rose into the middle of the 11 remaining roses. (Cut silk stem down if rose doesnt completely match, that way ...


3 Comments, 493 Views, 53 Votes ,5.59 Score
SweetSurrender4U 72 F
2 Articles
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RE: First Meets   7/31/2005

In this modern world of uncertainty, no one can be too cautous. Yes, even Doms/Masters have a need for safety from explortation, blackmail, etc. The internet offers numerous opportunities to meet new people. How wonderful and exciting it can be. However, it can also be devasting and deadly if you should fall prey to the wrong person. During my voyage through the Alt. lifestyle (very short ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 28 Votes ,7.45 Score
Glory4U 64 F
1 Article
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Several signs of poor doming   7/9/2005

So, I am a sub and proud of that. I have several tips for other subs in separating the real Dom from the posers. <br> <br> 1. The Dom meets and greets you one time with no intention of playing. <br> <br> 2. You agree to safe sane limits <br> <br> 3. You understand and agree to what you can provide from the ...


3 Comments, 1601 Views, 122 Votes ,5.12 Score
behavenow2 53 F
3 Articles
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truth and nothing but the truth   7/9/2005

From life experience I can tell you that lies breed hate and mistrust so if anyone wants a relationship or marriage to last truth and nothing but the truth no matter what lie to me good-bye, tell me the truth and we will get by


1 Comments, 185 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
subbiejenn 53 F
2 Articles
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just wanting sex or build a relationship?   7/9/2005

i am getting frustrated with Dom's who bascially are out for only kinky sex. *sigh* i am looking for more of a realtionship.. is it rude to want to know a Dom before You submit? why is it some Dom's feel You should obey them from the first hello? Is it wrong to want to know them before i submit? *sigh* <br> confused jenn


1 Comments, 61 Views, 19 Votes ,7.21 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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knowing is not to abuse   7/6/2005

I was going to post a comment to the “Diff. between S/D relationship & mentally abusive one? “ And then thought better of it…. Safe Sane & consensual… yes. The problem arises from the age old candy store syndrome I am in the candy store and I want… <br> I have heard and seen Dominants and submissive who jump in and commit to a D/s or M/s relationship from the ...


2 Comments, 269 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
lonleyinco 58 T
1 Article
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how to tell one your a tg   6/30/2005

Hi Im a transvestite and live as one ! I have recently met someone and things are going well thing is this person knows nothing about my sexuality and i dont know how to approach this subject without hurting this person or making them think there is something wrong with them or with me ! i am at a loss as how to approach this anyhelp would be appreciated !


5 Comments, 153 Views, 15 Votes ,2.21 Score
MistressTara69 72 T
1 Article
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IS THERE ANYTHING WORSE THAN NO SHOWS?   6/26/2005

Hi friends, I'm back and want to address this issue..NO SHOWS. Is there anything worse? I suppose there is, I've just found that every member I ever met personallly, was at the least, part of who they said they were..lol/ <br> But no shows, that is the bottom of the food chain, utter disrespect and real callousness that enflames a person's emotions and hurts frankly. <br> ...


5 Comments, 1000 Views, 58 Votes ,5.05 Score
Reese215 78 F
4 Articles
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The Bee Versus The Flower   6/20/2005

Still new to being a submissive, I am always looking for ways to understand my relationship to my Dom. While He is completely in charge outwardly, I feel at sometimes I am in charge inwardly. Not a powerful 'in charge, ' just a knowing within that I do have somewhat control of what I do and do not give. He knows that to receive unwillingly is both a waste of time and energy. My Dom, ...


0 Comments, 670 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
DarkCarnival 54 C
5 Articles
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Problems with Mom..getting better   6/18/2005

When I met my bodyfiend It was the first time I had met someone from ALT. I told my parents I was going out to a friends for a couple of hours. I wasnt sure how they would react to my telling them "Hey MOM! Going to met some strange guy and have sex! Be home by 12! Bye!" I was only 19 and new to the world of BDSM. I figured my parents would rant and rave and call the police. But My ...


0 Comments, 1301 Views, 61 Votes ,3.38 Score
servant2u40 60 M
10 Articles
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Usually the next day   6/18/2005

I will never forget my first real girlfriend in high school, after I spent most of the night thinking she was asleep with my face in her panty covered ass, and sucking her asshole.The next morning forever changed me, I realized I do have a female counterpart, that is a girl who is into recieving oral sex only and lots of assworship.U see she woke me up by sitting on my face, telling ...


0 Comments, 2240 Views, 80 Votes ,0.07 Score
slavinnen 59 C
4 Articles
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It takes time   6/6/2005

To build a relationship takes time in a "vanilla" relationship... - and maybe even more time in a BDSM-relationship, because there is even more elements that shall "fit". <br> I think it is importante to get to know (im my situation) the man, before I get to know the Master. No matter how strict you are planning to live the relationship, you are both humans, both peoples, ...


1 Comments, 778 Views, 37 Votes ,5.01 Score
slavinnen 59 C
4 Articles
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Are feelings ruled by "old genes" ?   5/29/2005

Is the fact that humans, genetically, are animals... - still causing troubles for us, in building a relationship, in modern times ? <br> Is it so that many of the reactions we have, comes from an almost pre-historic instinct, and/or are genetically “decided†or “programmed†within us... - often without any of us understanding that this is what causes our ...


2 Comments, 393 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
adorfemtryoutnas 48 M
1 Article
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Friend wants bi......   5/17/2005

I know this 24 year old girl who has some very strong bi-sexual pull. She luvs to masterbate watching girls go down on each other. Needs guidance but motivated. I would like to surprise her as a gift. I am not involved with her (5 yrs ago)- so you believe me when I would listen to her talk about girls and going down fantasies. I have some vid of her getting off to femonfem porn--HOT! ...


2 Comments, 219 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Exploring a bi relationship   5/7/2005

How does one who has been straight all of their life, initiate a bi relationship? It seems like all of the stuff that you learn with guys goes out the window with woman. Perhaps i am too nieve, it is so new, and almost scary to me. Does anyone have any hints on how a woman can connect with another woman?


5 Comments, 264 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
slutsJM 71 M
7 Articles
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I'm not an expert ...   5/3/2005

I don't really have a good track record ... it seems I trust those whom I shouldn't trust. I am very dominant, but I'm also sensitive and romantic. I have few limits sexually, but the ones I do have are very hard limits. One is trust. And in expecting trustworthiness, I also give it. I didn't come to BDSM, M/s, and D/s to see how many women I can conquer. One woman ... the right woman ...


0 Comments, 316 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
SirDeeVe8 82 M
2 Articles
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Baby Do you have A Hard Limit?   5/1/2005

Ok Ok, so it's a bad start to an important subject but hey, I'm a lecturer and a Dom. What do you expect? lol <br> Seriously though, you need to have thought out a "Hard Limit" list, i.e. a list of things that you simply do not wish to participate in. It's not all that difficult to write, and for your own sake and the sake of your Dom/me you should have it. Remember - anything ...


1 Comments, 370 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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How to explain subspace to another?   4/30/2005

In the begining the concept of subspace bewildered me, indeed verbally defining the concept was near impossible. It was almost like some secret club, everyone but me "got it". Books talked of it, but were vague in ways that books for a thirteen year old are when talking about kissing. People spoke of it as if they were all speaking of going someplace that all subs get to go... a sub heaven ...


3 Comments, 911 Views, 54 Votes ,6.74 Score
Mollena 53 F
7 Articles
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The Prime Directive   4/13/2005

In my trainings, I was given several unshakable rules. The first was the “Prime Directiveâ€. (Yes, I suppose it is an amusing co-incidence that it is a phrase akin to the Starfleet core value, but as we know, so many perverts are geeks…!) <br> The prime directive in my D/s relationships is this: <br> “The (submissive / slave) has the duty to protect the (dominant ...


3 Comments, 2855 Views, 201 Votes ,6.81 Score
jeszabelle83 45 F
4 Articles
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race is an issue   3/29/2005

I am a young white woman who recently started seeing a black man and I am shocked by the reactions I have gotten from some people. He treats me very well and I enjoy being with him so why do some of my "friends" have a problem with him? I have heard enough nigger jokes in the last couple weeks to make me puke, and often they are from people who claim not to be racist. I know some people ...


2 Comments, 130 Views, 28 Votes ,6.73 Score
4u2_own 60 F
1 Article
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Can I ever trust again?   3/29/2005

It has been a year since I came out of a very distructive relationship. I'd like to think that it was just a normal break up. But the plot was to wild for a movie. Of course I didn't know any of his diabolical activities till some time after the relationship had ended...Now I find I can"t trust anyone. I know deep down that they probably are being judged unfairly, but the fears are there ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
Skitzythefreak 39 F
1 Article
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Thank You Alt.com, For The Love Of My Life!!   3/25/2005

Greetings, My name is Ginger And I am 20 years old. For the last two years I have been waiting with fingers crossed for "Mr. Right." Well on the night of May 23rd 2004 I got a loving letter from a strange man. The title, "You could have it all, My Empire of Dirt." Being a strong fan of Music by Nine Inch Nails this gave me pause. I opened the letter and It was from a man I would learn to ...


1 Comments, 411 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
dajokerishuge 42 M
4 Articles
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What about smokers?   3/17/2005

Why is it that the everyday smoker does not have his/her option of discretely acknowledging that they have a hidden pleasure that is a lifestyle in it self? I have not heard a valid reason why it should not be considered a lifestyle choice and given the ability to know whether or not someone will match them more completely. Is there any hope of change?......


0 Comments, 374 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
melj 67 C
6 Articles
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does it work.. of course   3/14/2005

Jim (Dominant, melj) Wow It is the first time i have looked at the Mag section and I was shocked... <br> I can see so many lost soul's who for whatever reason seem to be in a pickle... negativity and lots of it... <br> RELATIONSHIPS There are many types of relationships in the alternative scene, none are wrong or right they are only what we need, if you want ...


3 Comments, 231 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
GoddessOfCruelty 47 F
1 Article
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Being in love and having slaves   3/14/2005

Is it possible for this to be mutually exclusive? <br> <br> I have a very dominant side, but I don't tend to express is to partners, as I feel it is seperate from the relationship. I'm happy with it being this way. <br> <br> Is it really possible to have the Mistress/Slave relationship intertwined and in a 'normal' partnership, and is it necessary, in ...


5 Comments, 444 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
phil56 67 M
11 Articles
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Need a woman.s advice   2/27/2005

First, Do women like men who are hairy or shaved? During the seventies and early eighties, it was "macho" if you were hairy, now I hear women say they like a man who is smooth. I see this often when gay guys are looking, but what about women? I was hairy (being Italian), but I have since shaved smooth, except the hair on my head)(the big one).Second, does size matter? I hear conflicting ...


5 Comments, 253 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
AcidSpikes 36 M
3 Articles
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question   2/26/2005

is it alright not to want any thing like for example i was laying in bed naked and my gf( at the time ) came over got naked to but we didnt do any thing i mean i didnt mind cause i have always thought as long as i get time with her im happy well im not so sure now she said thats what she wanted and stuff and she liked doing that well i found out that she started to get it some where else so ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 2 Votes
sweetheart77 49 F
9 Articles
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Poly relationships   2/18/2005

Do poly relationships EVER work? Is there a formula to make it work? Or is it something that others can grow into? Are certain people cut out for poly lifestyles?


4 Comments, 316 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
native_icon 72 M
5 Articles
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In The Beginning   1/29/2005

Many people have 2 lives. In the real world, they may be straight ordinary people and go about their straight ordinary day. Maybe even I am one of those people. who knows. <br> In here, we can be want we want to be. When we meet others, they only know the us that is here in this online family. <br> So when and how would one incorporate the two lives without disrupting ...


3 Comments, 276 Views, 28 Votes ,2.01 Score
Music_ata 52 M
4 Articles
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Introducing the "Lifestyle"   1/17/2005

How does one go and introduce the "lifestyle" to a new partner? W/o scaring them off. Or does "planting a seed work within reason.?


5 Comments, 268 Views, 17 Votes ,2.70 Score
soggypantscan 42 M
10 Articles
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Question   1/14/2005

Ok, I met these girls who were working at a bondage booth at this local sex toy convention thing, and I asked one out. She said she'd like to go for drinks after the convention, and even said "sure we'll go for drinks" after I asked her later on that night "so you were jokin' about the drinks right?". Problem is, we had to go (the guys) towards the end of the show and she disappeared, so ...


6 Comments, 150 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
Reese215 78 F
4 Articles
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To Be Or Not To Be   1/12/2005

While I am fairly new to this lifestyle and to this site, I have been approached by numerous Doms who write they can "train me in one night." I find this hard to believe, but then there may be some supermen out there just waiting to train this submissive to be all she can be. I have a tendency to believe (and want) a more stable relationship, starting off with a friendship, chatting, ...


3 Comments, 95 Views, 32 Votes ,8.21 Score
phil56 67 M
11 Articles
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Finding a Dom or Sub   1/5/2005

A place where you can have fun and possibly find what you are looking for, is at the New York Renisance Faire.There is the dramatic and romantic side to be satisfied here, as well as a hugh collection of people in leather and spandex, as well as women laced up in corsets. I am sure amongst some of those in costume are those living in the "alternate" lifestyle. If you have never been ...


1 Comments, 131 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
carol_pacd 68 T
2 Articles
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Hardest Relationship of all??   12/30/2004

I am wondering if the crossdressing lifestyle is one of the hardest of relationships to begin?? I know there are women out there who have special interests in the TG an crossdressing lifestyle, but it seems for the avgerage Transgender and/or Crossdresser, its difficult to meet such a woman... Alt.com is one of the few sites that I know of, that offer a chance to meet someone but yet it ...


1 Comments, 158 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
sansplo 47 F
1 Article
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new to this   12/30/2004

Does anyone know where I can find out information or help on being a good Domme?


3 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
jeszabelle83 45 F
4 Articles
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Begining...need advice   12/30/2004

I have been living with a man for almost 2 months now and care for him very much. I am quite submissive by nature and I am starting to see that he is a natural Dom type. We have great sex, stimulating conversation, and generally get along well with each other. My problem is that i do not know how to start a discussion about the Dominant and submissive rolls we are each already playing ...


9 Comments, 268 Views, 30 Votes ,4.02 Score
EugeneBob 65 C
1 Article
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Novice Dom   12/21/2004

So you're a novice Dom? Congratulations and welcome aboard! It is always nice to greet a fellow Dom. But before you get out them whips and start addressing every sub by "On your knees slut!" there are a few things I'd like to say. You may be nervous or scared. I know it took me a couple of years before I gathered up my courage and joined the local scene. I'd had fantasies of tying up and ...


2 Comments, 1061 Views, 113 Votes ,8.48 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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What is the role of symbolism?   12/14/2004

Talk about leashes, collars and other BDSM "accessories" has got me thinking... <br> The very first time I was exposed to this concept was late into the relationship with my first dom. I started with an off hand comment that wearing shirt collars or necklaces always makes me very aware of my neck. He very much liked what he called my adventurous spirit and fiestiness. He ...


1 Comments, 188 Views, 19 Votes ,3.52 Score
redhotlips2 44 F
11 Articles
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"Power Corrupts" but what about the Power Exchange?   12/13/2004

The idea that power corrupts, does it apply in D/s? <br> The first thing that comes to my mind is that it shouldn't be applicable in a D/s environment. While the quote (i believe) refers to general power, it's usually applied in political fields. So i was tempted to just deny it out of hand. <br> But that doesn't really make sense. After all, power is power, in ...


2 Comments, 129 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
AnEagerBeaver 54 F
29 Articles
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"THE OTHER SIDE"   12/10/2004

To start with, I am going to tackle some thoughts on the various components of BDSM. I won't talk much about the acronym, but do want to discuss what they are and how they relate to each other. This may seem like beginner stuff, but you'd be surprised at how many long time scene players don't really understand how it all fits together - this can and does lead to some skewed expectations. ...


1 Comments, 65 Views, 36 Votes ,8.07 Score
Sandy55555 73 F
2 Articles
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me?   12/7/2004

He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding. Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...


0 Comments, 258 Views, 44 Votes ,8.06 Score
Pectoralis1503 50 M
6 Articles
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Relationships without sex?   12/2/2004

HI there. I saw a lot of people, who looking for special kind of oral sex, bondage sex, anal sex and and and. Is it possible, to built a relationship without all that physical things. I mean sex could be nice, but is it all?


1 Comments, 32 Views, 19 Votes ,5.50 Score
rhondanjay 54 C
1 Article
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Bisexual wifes how many husbands have no problem with it.   12/2/2004

I have no problem with my wife being bi-sexual but I have noticed at swingers parties and even in some couples me and the wife I have met. So husbands and boyfriends have a real problem couping with the fact there wife is indeed bi-sexual. I have no problem with the fact as I knew from the day we started dateing she was bi-sexual and it was part of her I accepted.


2 Comments, 91 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
travelman11 59 M
3 Articles
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love letter to my girlfriend   12/2/2004

Copy love letter to bambi Baby ive missed you so much ! its been so long since ive held you in my arms, I m looking forward to hold to you again, ,I remember our first kiss so soft and sensous and after I kissed your mouth was still opan ready for more so I kissed you again and you made sweet sound, so I tongue kissed you but you weren’t ready for that , just sweet sensous kiss, ,, mm it ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
VABDSMCOUPLE 58 C
1 Article
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wen love play   12/2/2004

and want to hear from thers who didg this


1 Comments, 138 Views, 22 Votes
subgirl45 64 F
2 Articles
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Collaring   12/2/2004

I have a question for doms or masters regarding collaring. What is the average amount of time it takes including training and consideration that is used for a master or dom to collar a sub? <br> Are there any specific levels of collaring? I am just curious.


4 Comments, 241 Views, 26 Votes ,4.21 Score
MINDFUXpunished 60 M
1 Article
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New to this lifestyle need help in becoming a good slave.   10/30/2004

I have been with my Master for 6 months now, I love him to death. I am not yet the person slave I now i could be to him. I am looking to be his best and closes slave that he has, But i have a problem I can't yet give my whole self over to My master, I guess you would say that i am hardhead in some ways but i am in need of some advices from you. How should I correct the problem? Worried ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
adventerous56 67 F
1 Article
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new to this lifestyle   10/30/2004

I was wondering if anyone did training on the web first with their dom. How did it work out this dom I am working with seems a nice guy, and says we will meet in about a month. We talk on the phone and we talk by web too. It is hard for me to be totally submissive to him without challenging him because know there are no consequences yet for it. Do really want to do this, have discovered ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
MstrJD_at_htmail 44 M
3 Articles
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Any ideas?   10/29/2004

I recently met a vanilla girl but I soon realised that she was naturally very submissive. I have introduced the idea of BDSM & D/s to her & shes quite into it. My question is; does anyone have any ideas for how I should take things further?


1 Comments, 62 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Paul_Cuddles 76 M
1 Article
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What a lucky guy I was   10/27/2004

I have been in a long term relationship and regretfully my partner died on June 2nd 2002. I met him when I was 15 and he was 40 and we had the most wonderful life together in a totally monogamous relationship for 40 years. When I was 20 I came to live with him and we had lived together in true harmony and love for those 35 years. We did not have much to do with the gay scene and we hated gay bars ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
minililmisfit 60 F
1 Article
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Oh, Just Spank me Already!   10/25/2004

I'm a frustrated subby just getting involved in the lifestyle and find, like many of us, when I'm really stressed or upset, I NEED a good spanking! So Why is so hard to get my partner (a stated dom) to understand this? I explained, it's a great stress reducer for BOTH of us, he won't harm me if he stays focused on the sit spot and uses his hand or "gentle" implements, it allows me to release my ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score