MissAnn5 58F
2379 posts
6/19/2017 1:58 pm
LAWS OF ATTRACTION....


Well... I Got My Brakes On Today....
I Actually Visited This Guy The Day Before .... So He Could Evaluate What I Really Needed On The Van....

Now.... I Keep Asking Myself ... WTH is Going on ?! ...
I've Chatted With This Man For Hours .... We Click So Well.... He Seems to Even Read My Facial Thoughts.... He Makes Me Laugh...

I Was ,,, To Tell The Truth ... A Bit Worried ... He's Been A Bachelor for A While ... and Me Being Me ... Of Course I Worried About Every Little Thing ...
I Was Impressed By the Cleanliness Of The House ... as I've Seen Lots Of Bachelor Homes,,,, While Cleaning ,,, Not Dating ...lol... Many Bachelors Don't Bother Cleaning a Bathroom or Whatever ..... Some You Can Scrap the Dirt Off... Seriously ....

So... He's Not Lazy ... Even Though He Ran Out Of Toilet Paper ...lol...

I Had A Wonderful Time Chatting with Him ... and I Ask Myself .... what Is It That ' Draws ' Me To This Man... Strangely ...
Nothing About Him Is My ' Type '...

He's Not Tall... He Has Long Hair ,, Tattoos.... and I Believe I Saw 2 holes in his Ear ..... LMAO..... Omg...

I've Concluded... That It's His ' Soul ' ... His ' Insides ' ... I Like So Much.... What a Heart Of Gold .... We've Connected through Talking and Texting So Many Hours ....

I've Watched him For 2 Days ..... He Has Many Good Friends that Visit often ... and that's something to be expected for Such a Good Guy....
One Gives Me Very Bad Vibes... But Nothing That I Can't Handle ... and .. Besides ... He Makes Me Feel Totally Welcome .... so I'm Good ...

There's Just One Obstacle .... and Before You People Go Saying ' All You Women Find Something Wrong ' .... It's Just An Obstacle ... Not Something that can't change.... ( AND No I'm Not Here To Change Anyone Either )

It's Just An Important ' Obstacle ' For Me ... I've Lived with It Before... Raised Two Kids On My Own Because of ... and Watched a Man Deteriorate ..... I Just Don't Care To Get Romantically Involved With Some One ... It Is A Big Issue For Me ...

We Discussed It and He Seems Like He Understands ... So We Agreed To Take It One Day at A Time ...

He Is A Good Guy and I Believe He Has Good Intentions ...

I Thought It Important to Let Everyone Know That I ... MissAnn ,,,, Actually Met Someone In Person ... AND Survived.... ( I'm Still A Virgin To R-pe ...LMAO )
I Really Wasn't Worried about Him....


likesmatureones 48M  
2060 posts
6/20/2017 5:00 am

Miss Ann.....where to start? okay let's say this was my story instead of yours...I wonder what your reply to me would be.

Say I was blogging about my car troubles and this guy that I've been talking to offered to fix my brakes.. ( you'd automatically assume by brakes he means to get into my pants). But I tell you that he is a great guy and we have been chatting for a while now etc.

Now I wonder if it would sticker shock you if I mentioned things like how clean his house is or if he has enough toilet paper ( and yes I know and appreciate your high standards of what clean is).

Now I mention details about like hair and what his friends are like etc etc etc.

I think the first thing out of your pretty mouth would be...OMG leo chill lax.. you just came over to get your brakes done. Your not marrying this dude!

See men and women operate differently.. men are single minded ( we are looking to get one simply task accomplished...women on the other hand multitask and go a mile a minute and plan out a whole life for themselves with this guy...hate to say it but they start to judge to see if he is "worthy"..
Men just dive into the muck.. women put on their boots and proper attire to see if it is worth the hassle of going in.

if I met this dude the worst that would come out of that night would be my brakes getting done and perhaps my ass getting fucked...( period)..that is about as far as my thought process would go
men don't think into the future..we don't judge whether a woman or man is relationship material.. that is for something down the road

You have to understand that your not looking for a woman ( well maybe you secretly are...think about that one today..lol)....your putting womanly expectations on this guy.
is he worth putting on your boots and rain slicker to get into the muck? or are you gonna just dive in and act like a foolish dude...live for the day and say to yourself if nothing else you got your brakes done. You meet the guy and had an adventure

and then let tomorrow worry about tomorrow..

See this is why women have such a problem with sex ( no offense) they tie it into the whole relationship quandary...
As a guy I could literally suck his dick for his help in fixing my brakes and think nothing about it. To me it was just a blowjob. My way of saying thanks...and honestly if I never saw this guy again..hey no biggie.

Women on the other hand tend to see where this is going before they engage in anything sexual.


MissAnn5 replies on 6/24/2017 5:53 pm:
Yep,,, I'm a big ' planner / organiser ' ... prepping everything...etc...
He's teaching me to ' relax ' .... He's a Rare Human Being ... I'm liking Everything About Him 😗

CowboyRam 52M
3245 posts
6/19/2017 7:52 pm

Don't sweat the small stuff.

An ounce of doing is worth a pound of talk

Cowboy Up


SirSdeRoissy 62M
2 posts
6/19/2017 4:56 pm

Go with the flow....


alt5250 53M
938 posts
6/19/2017 4:08 pm

Awesome to here..... and I suspect your friends think you are being very normal...
Wishing you luck.


FaConfessor 50M
1 post
6/19/2017 3:14 pm

Sounds great. I am just getting back to dating after a two-year, self imposed time out. I am looking for sparks, much like what it sounds like you have with this new guy. I wish you the best of luck.


drmgirl622 62F  
5824 posts
6/19/2017 3:01 pm

You did exactly what we all need to do.......look at the inside



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