MissAnn5 58F  
2265 posts
6/16/2017 1:36 pm
KINDNESS..... In A Stranger ....


I've Gotten So Used To Men With An Ulterior Motive ..... That It Kinda Over Whelmed Me .... My Latest....Chat Friend ... That Is ....

I've Had A Very Difficult Month For Some Reason.... Van Is Like Falling Apart ... Causing Repair after Repair ... It's Sorta A Top Priority at this time ... So Money Is Dwindling that I've Saved For My Move...

I Had To Get An Oil Change And they Told Me My Brakes Were Way Below a Warning .... I thought... Well.. I had hoped it was just Fluid ...But No ... so Their Quote Was Like $300+...Oh No....

So ... My Mechanic Guy Is Going Out Of Town.... and I know I Have A full Schedule ... let alone Trying to Find A Place To Move ASAP.... With a Little Money left ..Ok...

I've Been Chatting With a Man ... I Didn't mention ... Because I figured He'd Be Gone In Less Than 3 Days.... like the others .... but ..The Man IS a Talker .... and His Life Is Similar to Mine ....
It Was Difficult ... Every time I have To Admit to Another Person that My Family Isn't so Great... It's Difficult not Knowing How People are Gonna react ... but He Understood and didn't Make a Big Deal out Of it... His Family Wasn't Perfect Either ....

My Life Has Some Ugly Years That No One Likes to Revisit.... But In Order For One To Know How I am Where I Am ... It's Necessary for some background ...

Well... This Guy Talked For Hours ... and Wasn't Boring .... So... I Just Went With It .... He's Very Sweet and Attentive ....He Stays In Contact Throughout the day .... and Night ....

He's From the Vanilla Site ... He says that I viewed his Profile ... But I think I Must Have an Evil Twin Flirting or something ... anyways ...

He's A Bit Young ... He Says He Likes My Blog ... He's A Little Skinny ...lol... But I'm Sure That Can Be cured ... and ( You are not gonna believe ) he's 5'7" .....

When I was Talking to him as I was leaving my oil change .... I told him how bad of luck I was having ... when it rains it pours ...

Then He Said " I Do Brakes " ..... Silence.... Waiting For The ' Payment Method ' ( I'm Sorry ,, that 's just How I was Thinking ) .... But He Came Back With ' 45 minutes and you'll be on your way ' .... I Said " No ... I Cant , How Much Would You Charge ? " ... He Said ' I Do For My Friends All The Time , No Problem at All ' ... He Even Took the Info For the Van And Got Me the Costs at the local auto parts store ... so I can pick up the pads on my way....

I Waited for ' Anything ' ... to sound like a ' trap ' ....lol.... And I Smack Myself .... I'm Always So Paranoid .... I Never Wanna Judge One Man With the Others...

I Think He Is For Real ... A Nice Person...

Knowing that My Safety is Important to Work and I need that Van In Good Shape ... I Told Him that I can Bring It Over On Monday ... If He Was Free... That's my only Day off... He said Ok....

Oh My... I'm A Bit Nervous ... But For The Van's Sake ... I Gotta DO IT... LOL... I'm actually a little nervous because we talk so freely and he has a sense of humor .... I'm waiting for a Red Flag .... I'll Have to Let You Know ...

For Now... I'm Kinda Taking One Day at A Time ... Praying to Make It Through Another Month .... another Day ...


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/24/2017 5:33 pm

    Quoting 57model:
    Of course it exists beautiful Funny thing about "karma". You get back what you PUT OUT LOL...and it's not just about sex, but I don't have to tell you that. Good luck with the auto repairs and anything else that seems to be going in the wrong direction. This too shall pass. Life goes on and hopefully so will your car Miss Ann. Good luck beautiful, xxxx
Awwww.... Thank You so much.... πŸ˜—
I may be old ... but just finding up what it's all about ... lovin' every moment ... I believe I've found a Gem .... and Am So Very Greatful 😚😊


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/24/2017 5:28 pm

    Quoting DirtySlutTamer:
    Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

    You've already established a good rapport with the man and he's offered to do you a favor. This is a chance for both of you to deepen your relationship.
    You're only hurting yourself if you let your fears control you.
    Sure, take precautions. Let someone know when and where you're meeting him and arrange to call or text to let them know you're OK.
    Take some pepper spray in your purse or better yet, if you have a CCL, take your pistol. BTW All women should get one.
    Anyway, protect yourself but take a chance and see if you don't wind up having a pleasant experience which renews your faith in humanity.
Well ,, Thank You,,, I've let people know where I am ,, but I don't have pepper spray,, I've always been against guns .... but I may change ... this guy says he wants to teach me....😊
Thank You for the great advice , though πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜—


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/24/2017 5:22 pm

    Quoting DancingDom:
    Well, I suspect he will either be a gem or you will know when to apply the brakes.
Lol... yes .. all is Good 😁


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/24/2017 5:21 pm

    Quoting taximan6752:
    quote a stranger is just a friend that we haven't met yet.
ABSOLUTELY.... I just didn't feel I had any ' extra ' time to spare ... πŸ˜™πŸ˜Š
But , surprisingly... I've found some time 😁


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/24/2017 5:18 pm

    Quoting likesmatureones:
    Miss Ann...I was hoping you'd come to the brake part of your story..lol...cause I know brakes and they shouldn't cost 300 bucks...

    Most likely if your van is a front wheeled drive vehicle ( like most are) all your gonna need is new front pads.. which can range from 30-60 dollars period....( 60 dollars being the really good pads).

    Pads can be a lil bit of a bitch to change... but anyone with a lil time and elbow grease can do it...and no real specialty tools required...c clamp/ratchet/some sockets etc. It can be done in less than an hour. ( with some of that time devoted to removing tires/jacking car up etc

    Just remember to pump up your brakes before you take off..lol...

    If he does them correctly there should be no pulling to one side or the other..he should also grease up the pins..your brake calipers slide on pins and need to be greased...1$ packet of grease sold at the autoparts store counter

    as you can tell if we lived close, I'd offer to do the same repair job for you miss ann ( big hug).. yes there are alot of nice men out there
Thank You ,, Sweety,,, I know you know your cars ... πŸ˜™


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/24/2017 5:16 pm

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    Ah, even on vanilla sites there are horks, real rude, not polite man, i am happy for you you met someone nice,

    it always feels good when people want to help, just help and do not have a hidden agenda.
    I met more then enough of those... bleahg!

    enjoy! the novelty of it all!
Thank You , ,, Yes ,, I was pretty fet up with all the disrespectful,,, selfish men I had encountered... such a pleasure and surprise to meet an actual genuine person ... we click so well...


57model 60M
10 posts
6/19/2017 12:01 pm

Of course it exists beautiful Funny thing about "karma". You get back what you PUT OUT LOL...and it's not just about sex, but I don't have to tell you that. Good luck with the auto repairs and anything else that seems to be going in the wrong direction. This too shall pass. Life goes on and hopefully so will your car Miss Ann. Good luck beautiful, xxxx


DirtySlutTamer 65M
12 posts
6/18/2017 1:03 am

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

You've already established a good rapport with the man and he's offered to do you a favor. This is a chance for both of you to deepen your relationship.
You're only hurting yourself if you let your fears control you.
Sure, take precautions. Let someone know when and where you're meeting him and arrange to call or text to let them know you're OK.
Take some pepper spray in your purse or better yet, if you have a CCL, take your pistol. BTW All women should get one.
Anyway, protect yourself but take a chance and see if you don't wind up having a pleasant experience which renews your faith in humanity.


DancingDom 67M
7726 posts
6/17/2017 1:31 pm

Well, I suspect he will either be a gem or you will know when to apply the brakes.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


taximan6752 61M  
1081 posts
6/17/2017 6:01 am

quote a stranger is just a friend that we haven't met yet.


likesmatureones 48M  
1654 posts
6/17/2017 5:51 am

Miss Ann...I was hoping you'd come to the brake part of your story..lol...cause I know brakes and they shouldn't cost 300 bucks...

Most likely if your van is a front wheeled drive vehicle ( like most are) all your gonna need is new front pads.. which can range from 30-60 dollars period....( 60 dollars being the really good pads).

Pads can be a lil bit of a bitch to change... but anyone with a lil time and elbow grease can do it...and no real specialty tools required...c clamp/ratchet/some sockets etc. It can be done in less than an hour. ( with some of that time devoted to removing tires/jacking car up etc

Just remember to pump up your brakes before you take off..lol...

If he does them correctly there should be no pulling to one side or the other..he should also grease up the pins..your brake calipers slide on pins and need to be greased...1$ packet of grease sold at the autoparts store counter

as you can tell if we lived close, I'd offer to do the same repair job for you miss ann ( big hug).. yes there are alot of nice men out there


rosaenaluin 58F  
485 posts
6/17/2017 12:32 am

Ah, even on vanilla sites there are horks, real rude, not polite man, i am happy for you you met someone nice,

it always feels good when people want to help, just help and do not have a hidden agenda.
I met more then enough of those... bleahg!

enjoy! the novelty of it all!


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 7:52 pm

    Quoting Dreamcatcher__:
    Some guys just like to do nice things for people they know. It's a good sign. Go with it. Sometimes you gotta have a little faith.
I'm trying,,,, It is a bit Different... but... I'm Not Disappointed Yet....


Dreamcatcher__ 80M  
4035 posts
6/16/2017 7:41 pm

Some guys just like to do nice things for people they know. It's a good sign. Go with it. Sometimes you gotta have a little faith.


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 6:51 pm


slaveforyou365 56M  
331 posts
6/16/2017 6:44 pm



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MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 6:00 pm

    Quoting alt5250:
    Nice to hear you get a bit of a break........on the brakes...πŸ˜€

    Couldn't happen to a nice lady...... now back to breathing normally.
I'm Always Worrying About Something ...


alt5250 52M
881 posts
6/16/2017 5:58 pm

Nice to hear you get a bit of a break........on the brakes...πŸ˜€

Couldn't happen to a nice lady...... now back to breathing normally.


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 5:41 pm

    Quoting Happycommander:
    Hmm.

    Not get too picky, but to quote , "hmm, nice, decent people on here? It is almost a miracle."

    How odd. All the people who have commented so far not only seem nice now, they seem to have been consistently nice in their treatment of others one here.

    There are others..... and they not only women have been supportive or offered
    sensible advice. Some even connect not via blog comments. Perhaps not many, but they exist and show up frequently.

    OK. I'm ready for the hostile rebuttal now.
Lol.... I Don't Feel Like Being Hostile...
You Are Exactly Right... Though ,, I Think She May Be More Referring to Her Bad ' Matching ' ...... It's Very Difficult .... there is a lot of ' bad ' Doms on here... She Did Say Almost
I Am Grateful That They Stay Away From My Blog ... Of Course ,, I Block Many ..


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 5:34 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    Well, he does sound very nice......what do you have to lose ?
Exactly.... Nothing to Lose...


Happycommander 63M
115 posts
6/16/2017 3:17 pm

Hmm.

Not get too picky, but to quote , "hmm, nice, decent people on here? It is almost a miracle."

How odd. All the people who have commented so far not only seem nice now, they seem to have been consistently nice in their treatment of others one here.

There are others..... and they not only women have been supportive or offered
sensible advice. Some even connect not via blog comments. Perhaps not many, but they exist and show up frequently.

OK. I'm ready for the hostile rebuttal now.


drmgirl622 62F  
4478 posts
6/16/2017 2:52 pm

Well, he does sound very nice......what do you have to lose ?


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 2:31 pm

Thank You Sweety .... I'm a Bit Anxious ....
I Have So Much Going On In My Own Life .... Little Time to Worry About any Hookups ...


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 2:28 pm

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    hmm, nice, decent people, on here? it is almost a miracle!

    but i met such a person in real life, we talk, he is very open, vulnerable too... funny also.... honest, and hot!

    I am just as paranoΓ―d as you!
    waiting for the redflags! ......who just seems to be not there....
    ( he knows i have been burned, real hard and deep..)

    i am scared shitless!

    keep up the positive vibe!
No ... Not Here ... He's From A Vanilla Date Site ...
I Hope Things Go Well For You ...
My Patience Is Important .... I Have No Expectations .... High Hopes ... But ... No Expectations ...


rosaenaluin 58F  
485 posts
6/16/2017 2:20 pm

hmm, nice, decent people, on here? it is almost a miracle!

but i met such a person in real life, we talk, he is very open, vulnerable too... funny also.... honest, and hot!

I am just as paranoΓ―d as you!
waiting for the redflags! ......who just seems to be not there....
( he knows i have been burned, real hard and deep..)

i am scared shitless!

keep up the positive vibe!


MissAnn5 58F  
7768 posts
6/16/2017 1:49 pm

Pure .... Honest .... Kindness.... IT DOES EXIST ?



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