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6/28/2017 6:34 pm
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Sometimes you both have to learn to be both and sometimes at the same time. i envy and pity your situation for there is no easy answer. Been there done that doesn't help because every situation is ultimately unique no matter the similarities. While there are definitely recommendations for trying to get back to where you were, that particular cat has most assuredly left that bag. Just keep loving and trusting in one another and have faith. -Russ
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25880 posts 6/28/2017 7:41 pm |
It can be such a fine line we walk within this lifestyle...... each of you having your own individual lives. Communication, about everything, is the best way to work thru the intricate details. Stay true to yourselves and your relationship.....
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7019 posts 6/28/2017 8:23 pm |
Relax. There is no conflict. If there is a limbo, it is when you are not with him. You are only his most prized possession. It is your only existence. He merely uses you in different ways as the occasion requires. Each use, whatever it might be, increases his sense of possession. You serve him by submitting to him and accepting his use as he sees fit to manifest it.
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8008 posts 6/28/2017 9:01 pm |
Keep your chin up and trust things will work out...it always does.
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16315 posts 6/29/2017 12:14 am |
Some wise replies here already. I think it can only be a good thing that you have become so close and so aware of each other's needs (I doubt that it's just you!). Maybe your gloomy tone is as much about missing him as it is about the subtle changes in your dynamic.
Take care.
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837 posts 6/29/2017 2:48 am |
I am always with you when I am not with you and ditto for me
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837 posts 6/29/2017 2:48 am |
I love you Princess , very very much! x x x x x
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2092 posts 6/29/2017 10:53 am |
Good Morning Sub.. More than most, you've proven your successes are revealed by how you deal with the problems in life... I am sorry to see you are filled with so many opportunities, yet confident that this too will make you stronger.. Smile Sub, and share it with yourself.. : )
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1795 posts 6/29/2017 2:06 pm |
Darn, I read the title and hoped it was a rant against Rush Limbo...
andy
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9365 posts 6/30/2017 6:50 am |
Hey Girlfriend I'm So Happy To See You Postiing Here Again!!! ... My Comment Is Simplistic But Truthful In That Even Married People Lecture Not To Let Feeling Of LOVE Get In The Way Of GOOD SEX
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6195 posts 7/1/2017 5:53 am |
Work is a pain the arse isn't it ! I'm going be an arse too and make an assumption that when you two are together that it's somewhat like a bubble, the rest of the world and it's problems cease to exist. Maybe recreate that bubble effect while apart yet together ( on the phone ) But you'll need to switch off from work. Dedicate one day a week where you get home from work and force yourself to switch off from it all. Wash the day off with a hot shower. Shave and pamper yourself as if he were coming round in person. Maybe he has set a task for you to do before you speak to him, wear something that reminds you of your time together, could be perfume, clothing, a collar. Anything. Then talk, about the task you've done, what you'd like to do, have done .... you get the picture. It isn't the same as being together in real time but it can help with feeling that D/s connection and the bond you share and you feeling like His again.
Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn
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2017 posts 7/3/2017 10:03 pm |
There is a time to force things and a time to flow. Appreciation and gratitude moment to moment will fill the holes but darkness is as complete as light. The journey is everything.
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