Blog : The real 24/7 Lifestyle

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6/2/2017 1:57 pm

The real 24/7 Lifestyle

This should interest everyone in the lifestyle because this is about reality. I receive many offers from Doms?? who want me to be their 24/7 slave. Most are sparse on details of what 24/7 would be like. A few real laughers tell me I will work and delivery my paycheck to them at the end of the week. When I am not at work of course I will be kept naked and in chains being beaten and sucking their cocks. Really dude!! That's not the lifestyle.

I have a Master I live with. I am his property his slave and his future wife. I am a 24/7 slave to my master. So what does a normal weekday look like. I get up and shower with him. He usually fucks me or puts me on my knees. I get dressed for work with all the usual clothes, shoes and make up issues. We eat breakfast together and I kiss him and leave for work, scratch 2 hours

For the next 8 to 9 hours I am employed and working my ass off. I think about Master during the day, he lives rent free in my head after all, but other than thinking about him, I am focused on work. scratch 9 hours out of the day.

I come home from work usually after him. Most days, he is preparing dinner when I get home and I get my orders for the evening. Sometimes we play, sometimes we watch tv, sometimes we go workout. This 6pm to 11 pm time frame is our couple time. So for those of you from Rio Linda, what I do is up to him. On a play day, I will be told to bath, and to put on my slave outfit and come have dinner. the slave outfit is a collar, ankle cuffs and wrist cuffs, and high heels. We will eat dinner together and I will put on an apron and clean up the dishes. He enjoys watching me move about the kitchen mostly naked. Afterward, he will relax in a comfortable chair and his slave will kneel beside him waiting on instructions. He usually spanks me for fun and almost always enjoys a nice slow blowjob. Afterward he likes me in his lap, while we watch tv. When he is ready, he leads me to the bedroom and fucks his slave into submission. As per protocol, after I am untied I have to clean our sex off his cock and balls. Mind you when anal is on the menu, I still clean him but with a warm wash cloth. He cares about me and doesn't want me sick. Scratch 5 hours.

The balance of the night is spent sleeping like any one else. My point is 24/7 is usually 2 hours average a day of the lifestyle and 22 hours of normal life. I am 24 hours a day his slave, but we have a regular life like everyone else.

My point is to the 24/7 believers, unless you are rich millionaire, you don't have time for 24/7. So be real.

spankher101 57M/53F

152 posts
6/2/2017 5:52 pm

so very true..

Dashmaux 49M

101 posts
6/3/2017 12:04 am

Thank you for this reality check. I think there are many who just have not found out, discovered or even thought about the reality of truly living a 24/7 D/s relationship. Perhaps it is their lack of experience or well, lack of forethought.

rosaenaluin 65F

10951 posts
6/3/2017 3:04 pm

Thank you, very much.
there are sooo many idiots who think fantasy porn 24/7...
really! they dont have a clue!

Everybody works, so... everybody has to pay the bills, unless they want to live under a bridge.. no 24/7 there...
Or are miljonair... not likely.

It as you said it; He lives rent free in your head, it is the mindset that counts,

The authority/power transfer/ exchange..is the core....
This is something you can not explain enough!

it seems there are too many brain death here...

TheGentleD0M 55M

4082 posts
6/13/2017 12:24 am

Once you've actually lived this life, you realize that, even though the feelings are genuine, the actuality of D/s is a pageant of brief interludes spread out between the necessities of living in a material world.

Good luck with your future marriage.

Thanks for writing.

tgd