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drmgirl622 68F  
25884 posts
6/19/2017 3:01 pm

You did exactly what we all need to do.......look at the inside


FaConfessor 25M
1 post
6/19/2017 3:14 pm

Sounds great. I am just getting back to dating after a two-year, self imposed time out. I am looking for sparks, much like what it sounds like you have with this new guy. I wish you the best of luck.


alt5250 61M
1283 posts
6/19/2017 4:08 pm

Awesome to here..... and I suspect your friends think you are being very normal...
Wishing you luck.


SirSdeRoissy 68M
19 posts
6/19/2017 4:56 pm

Go with the flow....


likesmatureones 55M

6/20/2017 5:00 am

Miss Ann.....where to start? okay let's say this was my story instead of yours...I wonder what your reply to me would be.

Say I was blogging about my car troubles and this guy that I've been talking to offered to fix my brakes.. ( you'd automatically assume by brakes he means to get into my pants). But I tell you that he is a great guy and we have been chatting for a while now etc.

Now I wonder if it would sticker shock you if I mentioned things like how clean his house is or if he has enough toilet paper ( and yes I know and appreciate your high standards of what clean is).

Now I mention details about like hair and what his friends are like etc etc etc.

I think the first thing out of your pretty mouth would be...OMG leo chill lax.. you just came over to get your brakes done. Your not marrying this dude!

See men and women operate differently.. men are single minded ( we are looking to get one simply task accomplished...women on the other hand multitask and go a mile a minute and plan out a whole life for themselves with this guy...hate to say it but they start to judge to see if he is "worthy"..
Men just dive into the muck.. women put on their boots and proper attire to see if it is worth the hassle of going in.

if I met this dude the worst that would come out of that night would be my brakes getting done and perhaps my ass getting fucked...( period)..that is about as far as my thought process would go
men don't think into the future..we don't judge whether a woman or man is relationship material.. that is for something down the road

You have to understand that your not looking for a woman ( well maybe you secretly are...think about that one today..lol)....your putting womanly expectations on this guy.
is he worth putting on your boots and rain slicker to get into the muck? or are you gonna just dive in and act like a foolish dude...live for the day and say to yourself if nothing else you got your brakes done. You meet the guy and had an adventure

and then let tomorrow worry about tomorrow..

See this is why women have such a problem with sex ( no offense) they tie it into the whole relationship quandary...
As a guy I could literally suck his dick for his help in fixing my brakes and think nothing about it. To me it was just a blowjob. My way of saying thanks...and honestly if I never saw this guy again..hey no biggie.

Women on the other hand tend to see where this is going before they engage in anything sexual.



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