likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
8/18/2017 4:06 am
Meeting the same person on various sites


Now I know we all travel around in small circles...but..have you ever run into the same people on various personal ad sites...

and if you did were they the "same".. By this did they give off the same persona..

an example: perhaps on here they are master so and so and they want you to be this or that or do this and that...

and then on another site they are simply "henry" or " betty" and they are just looking to cuddle..

it makes you wonder which person your really getting...Master asshat..leader of the seven seas of pluto or the "cuddler"

I just sorta find this ironic...came across this one Dom who was wanting to own a dude and have his wear diapers etc etc etc and then bitched because he couldn't find any "real" slaves..

ran across the same dude on another site ( not exactly nilla)..more of a gay personal ad site and all that diaper talk and bs wasn't there in his ad. No mention of it...so if you dated this dude would the diaper talk eventually come out or is all that a by product of him being on a kinky site?

likesmatureones 55M

8/18/2017 4:07 am


rosaenaluin 65F
10827 posts
8/18/2017 5:36 am

Oh, yes i have that happening to me too.

Only those men were on both sites a real pain in the behind... due to their "dominance disease" behaviour.

So with their own dick in their ars, they can not hear what the *might be future partner* has to say, tell...
Do not have the bare communicative essentials, do not know how to listen? of ask open questions.... ?

So full of themselfs, without the knowledge about the first thing of BDSM....
such a pitty and a waste of time, energy, effort...

They change their profile name, but their ammo is just the same...

So, not in the way you experienced, thank the Lords....

a pain in the you know were, all the same..


marshamay 35F
5934 posts
8/18/2017 10:47 am

A few , mostly the same personalities except one who was "invisible " there and actually accused me of being on another site as if i was his personal property and i was somehow cheating . I believe i had prior contact with him 3 times on this site , mainly him telling me how he was some kind of super intellect.


Gowron 69M
3089 posts
8/18/2017 10:55 am

I suppose some people want to explore their kinky side on Alt and their vanilla side elsewhere. Or gay here and straight on another site.

Different needs to fulfill.


slaaf85_91 61M
447 posts
8/18/2017 10:01 pm

I use adult and dating sites for 15 years now and got profiles on different sites. The policy of adult sites varies a lot, some allow no nudity others allow to post porn videos to show my kind of lifestyle. Some do not allow to mention all aspects of my sexual cv, such as torture, etc. Nevertheless I try to be open and honest about my sexual lifestyle as far as site policy allows me to share.
A more direct way to connect to interested guys is to broadcast with webcam, posing nude with body and face and answer direct any questions, just like I hook up with men in any local gay club where guys find me nude with nothing to hide.

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...



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