likesmatureones 55M
0 posts
8/16/2017 4:43 am
can you really play with someone that doesn't have an interest in you


I wondered if you ever met someone on line that looked ideal.. your checking off your boxes versus their boxes.. it seems like everything lines up nicely.

Yet when you chat/email this person it almost seems like they really aren't into you...it is almost like your bothering them/they answer with brief one line sentences etc.

I honestly don't have time for someone that doesn't have an "interest" in me ( whether that is attraction/sexually/playwise or as a person...

I could care less if all the stars are aligned and this person appears to be a good play partner/the right one for me/could care less if we geek out over certain aspects of the lifestyle...

if a person isn't into me then why even bother....had this happen to me twice now..

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likesmatureones 55M

8/16/2017 4:44 am

"> oh just wanted to give a shout out to japan.. apparently alt bots now think i'm into japanese ladies


slaaf85_91 61M
447 posts
8/16/2017 9:37 pm

With my lifestyle I meet often guys who seek a submissive male volunteer to play. Before anything happen they negotiate a bit about what they want from me, how far they can go on me.

Either they spot me live in the gay club or find me via one of my dating profiles. They choose my body seeing me nude in the bar or in my profile photos. They do not ask anything about me as a person, rather as an object to use. Once they start to work out on my body I really don't bother being used by a complete anonymous stranger. I am fully aware I am no more than a naked male body to satisfy their kinky needs.

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...


rosaenaluin 65F
10834 posts
8/17/2017 12:49 pm

I know that in the Dutch scene, there are a whole lot of people who have casual playpartners, all the time, or change very fast from partner to partner...

i can not do that, i first need the emotional connection, before i am able to submit.
to me it is not just play, get your kick and move on; see you next time, or not....

I want to build that bound first.
I need the day to day contact, the care for each other, as humans.
the guidance....


juleslikesithard 58F
56 posts
8/17/2017 6:37 pm

The one liners.. just mean they are there to get off.. so they either have multi convos going on.. or they are ...umm.. "playing"



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