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14380 posts 6/1/2018 9:15 am |
I'm a sick motherfucker.
I remember now.
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854 posts 6/1/2018 10:27 am |
Invariably, the only spontaneous contact from "women" is from scammers seeking to part you from your money.
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25884 posts 6/1/2018 11:53 am |
I think it should be either or.......if I feel i want to meet someone I just send a message. Quite often, I send a message to compliment a photo or profile.
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10842 posts 6/1/2018 1:10 pm |
i sometimes send a wink, or comment/compliment on this mans blog/story. if he does not pick up on that... or he has no interest...? fair with me..
It should not matter, although I am a bit old fashioned, i think the man should show his interest in me, make the first move.....
Most profiles/photos i have been reading dont entice me to contact, at all.
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19798 posts 6/1/2018 3:33 pm |
If one is interested, they should send a note of introduction, comment on their profile, blog, etc... something other than a bland *hi* or some rendition of their want list. Really, if you don't ask, you'll never receive. Never hurts to drop a respectful note ~ regardless of your gender or side of the slash.
Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short
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447 posts 6/2/2018 1:05 am |
I wonder if and how some read any profiles.
My profile is very explicit not only displaying my naked body in detail, but also describing my sexual lifestyle revealing all my deviant sexual details. Moreover I broadcast posing naked head to feet, showing live any details anyone asks for, answering direct questions. No way to give myself more naked and those who decide they want to meet me in person feel already familiar the first moment they meet me live. Still I get requests from mainly women, telling me I am a serious and decent man they are looking for...
Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...
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6/2/2018 2:13 am
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a. I look loads of profiles but rarely take the first step.
b. In my profile, I have explained what I am asking for, and in the profile that those who wish it are welcome and must take the first step.
c. Virtually all females are exposed to a storm of inquiries. By far most, completely irrelevant, compared to what is requested. All requests are therefore subject to a very serious sorting, and most are sorted out on a reasonable basis.
As a starting point, I rarely take the first step but expect to be found by those who want it I offer and that they then contact me.
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6/2/2018 2:17 am
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Addition to c. Anyone who has not, in their profile, described what they are looking for, a long way to go is the fault of irrelevant inquiries.
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6/4/2018 2:47 pm
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if the other person hasn't seen you the you should make contact, that's if you want too.
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Quoting Raven_GB: Invariably, the only spontaneous contact from "women" is from scammers seeking to part you from your money.
Aint that the truth. So much so that if a real one contacts, you 3rd degree em so hard they run away muttering.....
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6/6/2018 8:26 am
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While my view is skewed old school. I agree with everyone that who initiates contact isn't carved in stone. Fakes are just part of the internet BS.
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Anyone interested in someone should make some initial move. Anything that is remotely meaninful, at least.
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22475 posts 6/17/2018 3:49 pm |
If someone contacts me first. So be it, If I contact them first, so be it. In this day and age I don't think it matters much. If you connect regardless when, where, when and who contacts who first, if you match up and have a connecting. That is wonderful.
"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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6/28/2018 7:04 am
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Agree with those who believe it doesn't matter, but should be the person who is interested. I have had a couple of folks contact me and I've contacted a couple of women. That said, there's a certain surrealism to this media. Anyone can be anything they want online. Reality may be quite different, but take a chance. All that can be lost is some time.
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7/1/2018 1:22 am
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i don't mind who contacts whom first. Surely the point of a site like this si to explore, meet P/people and discover new things. i don't get T/those who don't chat in the chatrooms, haven't T/they read what's on the tin?
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14380 posts 7/7/2018 3:17 pm |
10 "Agree" votes.
Yay me...
I remember now.
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7/13/2018 5:24 pm
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If you like the persons profile or are intrigued then just make a move and get on with it, regardless of dom/sub/switch status on both sides.
Looking for my ShirtTieGal. I like smart, stiff, high collar shirts & ties + a bit of bondage/bdsm.
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7/16/2018 12:49 am
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I don't have a subscription account so (a) I can't see the profile, and (b) I can't make any first moves.
There are so many fake profiles/accounts and scammers on here, and I have not been able to trial the site properly due to account restrictions, so I don't see much incentive to pay a subscription. Unless anyone can persuade me otherwise?
Looking for my ShirtTieGal. I like smart, stiff, high collar shirts & ties + a bit of bondage/bdsm.
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569 posts 9/15/2019 10:48 am |
I voted dome
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