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alt5250 61M
1283 posts
11/20/2017 8:42 am

Well I hope I can frame this right, based only on the views you have shared with us on your blog.... but I do enjoy your writing so have gone back & read most of it.

I think you care a great deal....and about all of them. And they all in turn count on you a great deal because you care so much. Sort of sounds like you sit at the family crossroads as everyone keeps coming in needing you to be the solution/fix it lady.

So after everyone gets there bit of time & effort.... what comes next is the Business followed by you-him couple time.

I doubt I could possibly have any suggestions from afar that would mean much but I am sure you & him will get through it with your usual style & ingenuity...

But (for what it's worth) I am positive you are not far from his thoughts (painting or not). 😀


timetoshare13 62M
120 posts
11/20/2017 10:02 am

enjoyed reading your post


jaykay48 75M
11442 posts
11/20/2017 11:33 am

Bummer.

The biggest loser is the child, of course.

It sucks to be the best thing that ever happened to a child when she represents loss of freedom for their adopted "parent".

Life isn't fair. Glad you have something as wonderful as your talent to retreat to.

And I hope you Mom's newest relationship. Doesn't work out.

(Don't tell her I said that.... )


tinkerfun 46F
11150 posts
11/20/2017 2:47 pm

I’ve learnt the art of accepting the fact that we can never truly know with my (non-consensual) dance with Lyme disease. I cannot ever fully know if it is gone or goes. Somehow it has taught me to have a similar outlook on many other things as well as enjoying all the good days and have you ever tried to roll in a pile of autumn leaves? Would make a lovely painting with all those colours...


pandia__ 50F
3097 posts
11/20/2017 3:19 pm

Can I woe is me with you?

For planners like us, unforeseen life changes really stink. Sending peace your way.


drmgirl622 68F  
25889 posts
11/20/2017 4:18 pm

The pace is very hectic for you after having that freedom for awhile.......i'm not sure how you do it. Listening to you describe the relationship with the child makes me think she just might be better off with you......sorry, I know you really didn't want to hear that but she seems to be very happy and has the guidance and care she needs at a young age.

I'm all about planning and when someone moves my cheese......look out.....I don't take kindly to it. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you but all I can do is think good thoughts for you, Mistress Kim.

btw.......the painting is gorgeous !


nimblebookworm 59F
1543 posts
11/20/2017 6:08 pm

remember, whether it's time on alt or even just a quiet walk...if you don't take a bit of time to yourself, for yourself, you won't be good for anyone.
I'm a planner too, and your not knowing situation would drive me wackadoo. Personally, I think you're doing great.
Love the painting!


SylviaSoulier 58F
8209 posts
11/20/2017 11:41 pm

It was only after you reminded me how difficult it is to paint hands that I looked at the painting more closely. The hands especially the right are wonderful. There is a deep quality of tranquillity in the painting.

Perhaps that is what is lacking for you - lack of tranquility. Otherwise it sounds as if there are wonderful things happening as well as discombobulating ones.

I’ve been thinking of your relationship with slave/husband a great deal as I tread the discombobulating task of balancing a future 24/7 with my Ocean with my commitments to the other people I love. No frigging idea how it is going to work so it is reassuring to read that everyone has struggles.

Thank you for your generous writing and your painting


tennmanforu 68M

11/21/2017 6:50 am

nice



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