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jenny14 75T  
90125 posts
5/26/2018 1:17 pm

Miss

Yes, It is best to go with your heart and sometimes, relationships are best severed completely....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


MrRopeWorks 67M  
18 posts
5/26/2018 2:04 pm

I can relate. I tried so hard to be friends with my ex and was pleased that my immediate family continued to be inclusive with her. The turning point was when she used their openness toward her to cut me down. Staying friends is a two way street. Alcohol and drugs is a destructive force with incredible power and permitting it to tear into you is foolish. (I'm speaking of someone else's addiction)


spankbunny15 29F

5/26/2018 2:23 pm

I don't even try to stay nice with EX's. And alcohol and drugs are just evil!!


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
5/26/2018 2:23 pm

Ah, my dear. The staying friends bit only works if you have drifted apart. If you end because of booze, drugs or serious incompatibility, there is no chance that you can be friends. Like a relationship of a more intimate kind, friendship needs trust. If that is gone, then try to part on good terms. If the problem can be negotiated, that is another matter, but it needs to be addressed. What you seek is out there.


rosaenaluin 65F
10842 posts
5/28/2018 12:19 am

my ex and me, we were a mismatch from the start,
just because he is a vanilla and i am not.

I will never be happy in any kind of vanilla relation, i end up hating that person for not being what i need from a man, in a man.

He should be a fine man, for some vanilla lady...
staying friends was never an options, for not one ex partner...ever...

You broke up for a reason! your? his? character? drugs, alcohol?



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